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  • 8 Common Mistakes Parents Make While Disciplining Children

    Itís a tough battle to continuously discipline a child and what we think weíre doing right can ultimately backfire. Whatís worse Ė as parents, you tend to feel guilty and ashamed when nothing you do seems to work on correcting your kidís bad behavior. Thus, we present 8 common mistakes that parents often make while disciplining their children, and the appropriate solution to rectify them.

    #1. Scare Tactics

    Itís incredibly tempting to fib to your child and employ scare tactics when all other options dontít work. Some parents go to the extent of threatening their child with a figure theyíre most afraid of and seem pleased when their frantic kid quickly finishes their vegetables or dont their pajamas for bed. As effective as it sounds, this isnít the way to discipline your child. Empathizing with your kid is a much better method.

    #2. Blank Threats

    Dishing out blank threats without acting on it is ineffective. It might pain you to be the bad guy, but sometimes children need to be corrected immediately. If you tell your kid to pick up her toys and threaten to put her in time-out if she doesnít comply, then do so. This way you get the message across that there are consequences to every bad behavior.

    #3. Pushover Dad

    Children tend to approach dad when mom is on the rampage. Of course, dad then reacts by doing the exact opposite of what momís being trying to enforce, which unintentionally undermines her disciplinary efforts. The best option would be to have both parents united on the disciplinary front so neither one seems like a pushover.

    #4. Bribery

    It would seem easy to bribe a child into gobbling down their greens by offering a sweet after meals. But once you start, youíll find your child becoming more demanding over time, and failure to deliver your regular bribes can result in a massive temper tantrum. The best way to combat this would be to offer a compliment for good behavior instead.

    #5. Follow Your Own Rules

    Kids are fantastic mimickers. If you tap your childís hand each time he misbehaves, thereís a high possibility he will emulate your behavior and bat someone elseís hand away. The best way when laying down rules would be to follow them obediently, thus providing a positive example for your child to copy.

    #6. Losing Your Temper

    Every parent finds themselves trapped in a frustrated position when their child goes berserk. Rather than yelling at your kid to stop, the best way is to walk away and cool down before attempting to correct your child once more.

    #7. The Waiting Game

    Most parents make the common mistake of threatening punishment hours after bad behaviors commence. The best way to deal with a misbehaving child would be to employ a punishment or consequence immediately rather than later.

    #8. Nagging

    Nagging or launching into some long-winded explanation about the goodness of vegetables or sleep will probably soar right over your kidís head. It is better to be stern and concise when you correct your child rather that prattling incessantly.
    Thus, with these 8 common disciplinary mistakes that parents often make and the relevant solutions to combat them, we hope youíll have an easier time correcting your kidís mischievous misdemeanors!

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