shiny81, to me I think it depends if you're a person who needs a lot of sleep or not. Hehehehe! For me, I'm a super light sleeper and dont't sleep much. So going through all the sleepless nights, I can take it. However, naturally when we became mothers... there is this strong powerful instinct that will make us survive no matter what. So dont have to worry so much. Come what may and just go with the flow, everything will just run smoothly by itself. Most importantly is to chill and talk things out.