Advice: Is my husband cheating?

[edna]

My hubby and I used to be quite loving. After my son is born, we spend lesser and lesser time with each other. Recently, my sixth sense tells me that my hubby is hiding something from me.

In the past, he used to leave his hp lying around when he is home. These days, he is always carrying his hp even when he is home. Sometimes, when I am busy with my boy, I notice that my hubby will sneak into the room and make phone calls.

What should I do? Not sure if I am able to manage if I found out that my hubby really has another woman.

[charmaine]

edna, frankly speaking you got to ask yourself what you expect out from this if your dear husband is cheating on you.

what are you gng to do and how are you gng to handle it?

if you decide to close one eyes and rebuilt the relationship, then do something to restore the love you guy had.
- go for dates often (without your son) and communicate more often eg development of your son and things that happen to you
- show more concern for him: he needs love and concern too


if you decided to confront him, be prepared to hear the worse.

[jeSsie_Dz]

Originally Posted by charmaine edna, frankly speaking you got to ask yourself what you expect out from this if your dear husband is cheating on you. what are you gng to do and how are you gng to handle it? if you decide to close one eyes and rebuilt the relationship, then do something to restore the love you guy had. - go for dates often (without your son) and communicate more often eg development of your son and things that happen to you - show more concern for him: he needs love and concern too if you decided to confront him, be prepared to hear the worse.

i agree to as above mention~~

[Elaine35]

hmm before you decide on any course of action i would advise you to be sure about his infidelity. jumping to conclusions will coz alot of unnecessary stress in your relationship.

[charmaine]

Originally Posted by Elaine35 hmm before you decide on any course of action i would advise you to be sure about his infidelity. jumping to conclusions will coz alot of unnecessary stress in your relationship.

yeah must be sure of it before you action

[Precious]

Hi edna, dont jump into any conclusions before you have concrete envidence. Men have strong pride and they dont like to be accused.

[mummyto2]

Hi edna,

Maybe he is trouble by work issue? Have a good talk with him before you jump into conclusion.

[Ting]

i think you shld just talk to him about it...save your worries n stop you from thinking too much.....

[bluechin]

Originally Posted by Ting i think you shld just talk to him about it...save your worries n stop you from thinking too much.....

Yes i agree with Ting!

[aishah_28]

Ask him the reason for his action before jumping into conclusions

[Jayme]

A case of Post Natal Stress?

[Jayme]

My hubby is also meeting alot of women recently. He claims that they are all his clients and got to socialize with them. And recently he has alot of what primary school meetups, camp mates meetups and stuff... dont know real or not...

But I will not jump to conclusions ... will monitor...

[Ting]

yea monitor, im also doing that, dear husband gg to ord , finding job..but always mia...call him never answer or take hours to reply my smses...always say he is ASLP..wth....nvm, he lemme catch him, he is DEAD.

[xiaodaisy]

why dont you join him along for those meet up?? for me i always go along with my hubby even i donno dem haha to see whether is true n let dem know he's married haha