ok. we shall ignore you...
This is a discussion on Alittle pissed off w dear husband.. within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; just let me nag nag here.. dear husband's dept organised a dinner thereafter clubbing tonite, asked me along. At first I ...
just let me nag nag here..
dear husband's dept organised a dinner thereafter clubbing tonite, asked me along. At first I wanted to go coz dying to get some drinks after for almost a year. Then think again.. If go, I've to put the 2 kids at my mother in law place, coz no one else can look after oredi..
But if you all know about my post about my mother in law, ya, I dont know if she can handle dear son or not.. Wait she put dear son in yaolan how?! Prob think I'm thinking too much.. sigh.
Anyway, I chose not to go, told dear husband. dear husband tried to ask me along but I still dont want. This morn, dear husband told me he's going for the dinner then prob come home oredi.
I got alittle fedup that dear husband is going for the dinner. My thinking coz y throw the 2 kids for me to look after & you can go relax! But ya, he never been to any outings w/o me since we got married. So prob should let him go.
But I also wanna relax .. Then this morn, be4 he leave for work.. I told him to come back earlier next fri coz its my turn & I AM going out for dinner with my friends. Then he got alittle worried .. Haha.
Aiyah.. ignore me ppl.
ok. we shall ignore you...
no .. of cos we wont.
actually i feel that put in yaolan for a day shld b ok . y not go enjoy w your husband? let your mother in law handle on her own. you need to spend time w husband alone also .
But now almost 6pm . Forget it . Anyway, I got no mood also. This whole week, dear husband got project to rush, comes back 1-2am in the morn. I look after both kids until very sianz .. Think rather sleep at home.
I know not healthy. Prob when I feel better . If like that he also cannot take it, then too bad. He can just go back to his mother's house and stay.
Not only yaolan thingy.. what if dear son cry? She will carry him whole nite .. Haha. Prob I'm too paranoid. Too possessive over dear son? Haha. Maybe when he's slightly older.. I also dont know. Sianz.
Always this kinda thing make me miss my mum.. sigh.
lol ... *hug*
i know exactly how you feel ... my husband used to hang out with his friends all the time in the first 2 - 3 weeks of my confinement. i threw a hissy fit then he stopped. silly boy ... go out & enjoy while wife at home still recovering still bf-ing surrounded by in-laws instead of own family ... wah lau.
do you have close gfs or female cousins? why dont't you let them babysit for you?
Last edited by WeeFee's_Mummy; 17-10-2008 at 09:32 PM.
i feel that the more your mother in law insist her way, the more you'll not want your mother in law take care of your kids. it's normal.
ever since got kid, i also kept thinking of my mom. if she's still around, she'll def b very happy. n i can share my baby's development w him.
but what to do?!
sometimes mother in law can be very annoying coz they have their own way of looking after....cannot stop them one. later they get offended..
putting him in yl once a week is still ok becoz they also cannot remember??? anywayz you can both pick up dear son after the clubbing/dinner thing rite? so ok mah....dont leave dear son overnight if you really dont like mother in law way of making him sleep/possessive etc. (soli i did not read yr earlier threads kekeke...lazi)
perhaps try next fri??
If go clubbing, surely can't fetch him back . Prob be home in the morn & drunk.. HAha. But that nite, dear husband after dinner come around 9.30pm. Ok . Not that bad. But I was asleep oredi. Hee.
Last weekend, my brother in law asked dear husband y not shift over near mother in law place so mother in law can look after the two kids then I won't be so bored at home. My stupid dear husband told brother in law not worth to sell & shift there . ZzZz. Then come back ask me y not we sell this house then shift near mother in law? Duh!! My reason to be stay at home mum is coz dont want to miss dear son growing up stage what!!! Duhz! Shift over I also won't let mother in law look after one! dear husband give me nag until he said ya , he not thinking properly. DumbasS!
aiya, so funni...yr husband super honest and straight-thinking kind...
but now think think go clubbing w husband a bit bored , coz canx gossip + canx talk to other guys/make friends...but good thing is drunk got some1 there 4 you.
but you bored at home meh?
so when you think will be a good time to step out to work again? dont think you w be a stay at home mum 4ever also..
too smart not good. too dumb also not good. y cant they b average? hahaha... sometimes talk to my husband really can vomit blood. already got solution to something, he can still ask me how n think of other solutions a few days later. then when i said 'i thot we've already found a solution? *tell him solution*'. then he'll go 'oh ya !'
aiyo.... jaga baby already so tiring. still have to handle my 'senile' husband.
Wahahah.. I think mrspuppy's dear husband & mine belongs to the same kind of species. But , mine quite quick-tempered about certain things. Hee.
So far, dear husband still ok . But you never know in future will continue like that or not. Haha.
so dear mrs puppy and autumn, sounds like yr husband really listens to you ....
xiao nu ren, may b . but i dont take off shoes for him, put water for him to bathe...gee,..but most of time he has his own mind and thinking , and he always thinks ahead of me....tatz y he say i slow....
dear autumn, you havent answer my qs .
Eh? Which ques??
But I like to act as xiao nu ren! Haha. I'm trying very hard!! Haha.
SG democratiC mah.. Haha.
Ohh... Bored @ home of coz ! Can't go out shopping, ktv, drinking, clubbing, movies w friends. Not cannot but alittle troublesome. Hee.
Erm.. Actually I also dont know how long I'll be stay at home mum . Depends until when I can take it I supposed. See when my patience wear out! Was thinking about it few days back.. Hmm let's say if dear son in Pr 1 oredi then I go work, won't I be totally lost when I go back to workforce? Besides, if he's in Pr 1, won't he need a person to teach him even more?
It's like a never ending story, prob until he reaches Poly or Uni then I can go back to work? Wahahahaha.
then you cooked everyday?
bring baby in stroller to market?
dont think dear husband is super honest . Haha. Where got super honest guys in this century now?
Erm clubbing w dear husband really sux. Can't flirt around. Wahahahah Even if drunk, also got friends to send you back mah... dont need dear husband.. *shhh* dont let him hear that.
Ya, agree! go pub with friends better! Wah my gfs are very crazy type - dance on bar top kind somemore! Really fun! Last time there is this pub at china square called Carnegies, (closed down ) wah really fun - lots of hippies to get acquainted with. I also like china black (issit still there hah???) got stage to dance on...but i am not the center stage kind , only dance in the background...keke still shy and got stage fright. Not like my gfs they dance until the tv shows her face only....very funni. But if got guys invite me i will dance with them....wah really miss the singlehood days .
but so far never get myself drunk coz o/w father will scold...