haha i think your cousin is just being childish .. just say no .. unless you guys very close. I wont even dare of asking my couz for favour if we are not close....Pleaseee allow me to vent this out, it's bothering me a little and I hope to hear what you all think.
My Malaysian cousin's gf is studying in Sg at the moment and she lives not too far from me but we're not that close, only went out once dinner..other times are with all relatives. Her bday is next week. My cousin msged me today all of a sudden (he never usually msgs) and asked me if I'm free this weekend. I said sorry I have work to do. He asked what bout Monday..I said I have work. He replied 'just say your busy ' btw, he's almost 10 years younger than me but he never speaks with respect to me anyway. I was a bit irritated with his reply already. Then he asked if I know his gf's address. I said no. He asks 'how come i dont't know'. I said why should i know, not like i mail her things. Then he said 'like that, i send to your address, you send to her'..i said if he doesn't mind the thing arriving to my place next week (after her bday) then ok i can send to her. he said 'no her bday is monday, you send on monday'. i said i dont't know if i'm in time to collect my mails on monday because i usually come home late and office is closed. he said 'in that case, i order a dozen of roses and you send to her'..i said 'you think i'm a florist is it? you send straight to her apartment and ask receptionist to page her down. so weird i pass the flowers to her'..he said 'no you just send to apartment and ask receptionist to pass to her' i said 'what's the difference then?' he said he doesn't know her room no. i said the receptionist can page her down. he replied 'so you dont't want to help ...ok then' and stop msging.
I am feeling a bit bad now..am I too selfish? But I really dont't appreciate being treated like a postwoman. And I admit I am selfish because I feel that I am a professional business woman (workwear all that), look so horrible carrying a big bunch of flowers to send to a 10 years younger student? Sighhh feel bad now