This is a discussion on any such experience?? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; I find talking to my husband over the phone is so funny. I dare not tok too long as i'm ...
I find talking to my husband over the phone is so funny. I dare not tok too long as i'm scared i am talking too loud and scared others might heard us.
Anyone with such feeling too? Am I normal or i am just worry too much?
i dont't like to talk on phone.. so i dont talk for too long.. maybe sweet talk then will scare other hear.. feel abit wierd..
Thanks for replying. I am not alone...
Ya sweet talk scared ppl hear then if tok too soft, mate cant hear and will lead to some misunderstanding again!
Really , many mummies can help here,
certainly you aren't alone.
hmmmmm, i love talkin to my bf.
n i will make him say " I MISS you" to me.
im so evil i know.
LOL! when the 1st time we talked on the phone it took 9hours! yeah! he started to call me at 8am-5pm! then after hanged up at 5pm. i bathe and went out to meet him! LOL!
but that was then...... now?? only a min to 5 mins of talk! where are you? what are you doing? blah blah blah... ok bye... but at least he call eh...
hmm.. it's normal coz we all scare people laughing behind but how I envy all of you that at least your hubbys do call.. We have been together 6 yrs and have a son.. I dont even get a call nor sms when we are working! It's like he will MIA (missing in action) for the whole day, till end of the day "I" call him. How sad huh? How I wish him calling me to check me out.. but he simply dont understand woman's needs .. tell him 101 times and I simply gave up! Initially I couldnt get over this and keep complaining to my girlfiends.. but tried so many methods of "conveying" my needs to him.. but still.. he will do it for a short period, and stop.. sigh.. gotten tired..
i also dont't call my husband during working hours unless we both hve something impt to tell each other.. like he works late or ask me to wait for him at block downstairs to go for dinner together. Besides that, not much more communication using the phone...
after reading some of your post about phone calls, i think i would consider myself lucky then. Whether he is overseas or in town, i'll still get calls or text messages from him. But he often asks about the kids' well-being first and me next until one day i jokingly snapped at him, 'Ya now everything kids first right.'
Since then, the first few questions he asks when he calls would be matters related to me first. After that he'll ask about the kids.
no worries, i'm sure he will change. maybe he is busy at work, that's y no time to call you. but try to talk when he is at your sight. try to talk other things than complaining why you always never call me huh? that could lead to quarrel + if he just came werk.. i'm very talkative one. i will talk talk and talk with my hubby. fyi, when i got to knw my hubby he is type that dont like to talk much, when having problems keep to himself and not sharing.. but since he got to knw me, and since im very talkative, he is now also talkative! haha
for me n my hubby, we usu msn or sms when he's at work. seldom call unless got very impt things. moreover, even if he calls, i seldom can answer 'cause i'm alw bz w my boy.