This is a discussion on Any young mummies? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by stupidyeye wah wah wah.....all mummy here young ...bt guess now i'm e youngest ...haha...turning 18 this july...hehe.....bt ...
hahaha//no paiseh no paiseh...hehe..envy???hmm...guess no envy needed bah...lol....at least gt ppl nag mah...hahas....jkjk....hmm...its quite true dat no prob for me now.. but who noes in e future....lol....if i found another guy...and yet for me also gtg mother in law prob too..i also do not know how gona react...coz never met this prob before mah.....hehe
i gt no prob of mother in law now...and also e youngest amoung this yr MTB....hahass.....young good neh...hehe
hehe..true true...that is what happenin between me and mum..hahas...everytime go out wid her...ppl will thought she is sis....sigh...seems i old ...lol
true dat not everyone have mother in law prob ......so all prob lys on conversations and understanding...so jiayou...break it.....
i think must strike a balance in everyting ... i feel that friends over-simply the responsibility and lifestyle of a wedded mum. they can actually compare taking care of a child is same as taking care of a pet. nothing difficult. and mother in law problems are nothing.. as long as we are nice to them.. they will be nice to us. it aint true rite mummies.. haha... thats y i dont blame them for not understanding my situation. i think one day they will understand.
so i wanna know true friends here... so share ideas and bitch about things we dont like such as mother in law! heheh... ;P
for the mother in law part, i agree.. me and mother in law is okay, so far dont hav pro (cross my finger) but i often tell my hubby, i dont mind if parent in law treat me lik their own (cos the fact is, I'M NOT) but as long as they dote my hubby and my son, i'll be satisfy ... hehe...
its nice not to have mother in law probs.. i dont like the feeling of being hated and hating ppl.. i just want everyone nice nice to each other.. but apprently my mother in law is not in favour of having a harmonious life with me.. haha..my dear.. of coz your parent in law will treat your hubby and baby nice nice ... who wont..? haha.. but the difficult part is for parent in law to treat their daughter in law nice nice.. haha
And they kept bullying me during the wedding.. together with the relatives.. during the tea ceremony... no one gave me anything (angbaos/ jewellary).. nothing... all the relatives gave my hubby angbaos.. and ask him to keep properly.. dont give me... i teared... and my mother in law also cry during the wedding.. coz she dont want us to get married.. she want me to abort my baby.. what a BITCH! somemore wedding already..still do this kinda shit stuff. and during the gate-crashing... my hubby's relatives came along.. and ask my "jie mei" hurry up.. dont bully her nephew (my hubby).. ask them dont so money-face.. what the!!! argh!! angry not?
thats sweet.. but now everything very expensive... when did you take your wedding pics? as in how old?
my wedding dinner also fork out by father in law cos he dont want us to hav "normal" tables so he rather pay for more for those good tables.. in e end he "kui" ... *evil smile*
i also didnt get to choose the restuarant i want cos father in law insist on that restuarant just becos he know the boss there... but lucky the food are nice ..
5 tables? you mean include your relatives??
tea ceremony actually they should give you angbaos not to your hubby and your parents should give your hubby not you... for both my relatives and hubby's they give both of us...
most impt is you and your hubby (esp you) loves your baby and dont care about how others react even if shes your mother in law...
wedding photos ?? now save 1st ... few yrs later sure very ex .. LOL!!!
yeah.. i know.. tea ceremony shld be how you described.. my parents even bought a ring for my hubby... my parent in law gave me a "big" angbao of $20! can laugh until teeth and jaws drop! but over at my side... my relatives gave me jewellary and gave my hubby angbao.
yeah! damm all the mean mother in law.. really cant understand how can a human be so mean to another.. i think she watch too much korean dramas .. haha
i think have to save up at least $3k for your wedding shoot?
yes...i will show him dat w/o him...i'm better!!!!
hahas......lol...quite true ...coz is e 1st grandchild mah...hahas...
haha maybe just a family photoshoot?? haha... see few yrs later i look old anot if look old then i dont wanna take, waste money!