they arent working? its frustrating. you guys should stop giving them moneyI have a relative who likes to take advantage of their own family people.... The whole family like to borrow money from other relatives and then never return back the money. Dont know why whole family got this kind of pattern... Like to borrow money from others and then dont pay back. When you ask them to return back the money, then they will say: I thought you give me one?
Where got people will give you money for no reason? Too bad never ask them write IOU so cannot take back the money cus they say you give them. LOL.
Because they never set good examples for their kids now their children also behave same way- go around borrowing money from their aunties and uncles but dont pay back the money. Rather go buy expensive bag/clothes, and shopping than paying back. They dont feel shameful one.. They feel that it is ok to take money from others as if people owe them a living seriously.
I just hope this bad habit dont pass down to the next generation.