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I have a sister In law with two kids who is not considerate, my baby sleeping then her children drag the chair, wake my baby up, then never asked them to be quiet, her dog also leave it at my mother in law place, the dog kept barking and always wake my baby up, my baby bery light sleep one, a bit of noise, he will wake up and take sometimes to go back to sleep again.
She is going to have her 3rd child soon, what if I do the same thing, will she like it? This is not the only thing I am fed up with her. Aiya... Long story...
Last edited by ochklk; 24-04-2009 at 07:26 PM.
that's pretty irritating!!! I'm also like that when I go back to mother in law place once a week. It's not little children. It's 3-4 adults talking so loud!!! What I do was close the door & windows, switch on the aircon. Zzz...
Me everyday day kana , I stay with my parent in law , next time my boy aso taken care by my mother in law, at least you only go back once a week, I aso cannot on aircon, my baby breathing not bery good , always stuck.. even we on, we have to open the window to let the fresh air in.
i'm also like that...dear husband's niece n nephew (9 n 7 yrs old) also come over every Fri n Sun...so i'm off to my mum's place w dear son to stay for the weekend!
Kids are like that they never listen...when dear son's sleeping they also talk loudly, run, hop, play around the sarong cradle like monkeys...well they're not my children so can't possibly go beat them up right??
once the niece even shook dear son so hard...trying to wake him up so she can play with him!!!
the other niece (sister In law's dear daughter) also threw the bean pillow onto dear son's face...
the same gal (5 yrs) ever tried to poke her baby sister's eyes too!!!
quarreled so much with dear husband over these...so now i can go 3D 2N stay @ my parents' place HOORAY!!!!!!
well it's not that the parents of these kids dont't tell them to behave but you know kids are kids...they'll NEVER LISTEN...
At least you appreciate this fact ... so you should be more prepared when you have more children later on.Originally Posted by Ottermum
You see, my Seamus also do the same with his little 6mo brother ... not becoz he hates him, but actually becoz he loves him & wanna "play" with him.
To be more specific, when Siggi is peacefully taking his nap, Seamus would insist on being in the same room & making noise (including playng his electronic drum set) ...
i also got one inconsiderate sister In law or i would say immature although she is the same age as myself.
my husband is her elder brother but she always talk as if she is very mature and knows how to deal with things. Behave like a kid and always like a cat to her mother, my mother in law.
she discourages my mother in law to help us to take care of our kid in the back scene when my father in law is fully supportive. i dont know why suddenly it seemed that i am the one who is not accepting my mother in law's help. Wow Piah!
my mother in law has to do housework for her one and in the end, this girl put it that taking care of our baby is tiring my mother in law alot!
i cant help but am not interested to talk to her much.
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AIYOOOO ... talk about sister In law , she is good but maybe young like to "hao lian" infront of me like ..." aiyo i dont want baby but just dont know why now pregnant , too bad for you ,think you difficult to have also hoh so old already ( im 11yrs younger then her)..nvm , treat mind as urs ,
And whatever she do she must tell out loudly like " you see how clean i do the house work , i like everything nice and clean unlike urs
and then worse thing IS , i cant better then them, her husband is a elder bro of my dear husband, whenever i loving loving wt husband she will look me like one kind , or my husband go out wt his friends for pubbing she will talk a lot like " aiyo man go pub sure got play play one .. lucky my hubby dont like to go out and dont like to look at other gal
AND ALWAYS TELL ME "if my hubby like your hubby i think i will kill myself "
WALAU..... sometime really cant tahan her ......
other then bad mouth think she is good
no matter how bad or say not as good as her husband , he is my hubby .. can you pls dont bad mouth too much ...
WORSE is we r goin to stay 2gether .... want goin to be after 2 weeks.........................................
talk about sister In law. she almost ruined my wedding. anyway i have not seen her for more than 3 yrs . so i dont bother about her anymore. she's out of my life
ppl who tok tok a lot of this kind of nonsense are ppl who are very insecured themselves. dont bother bout them..
My hubby also has this damn bloody bad habit of looking at people whenever they pass by, be it on the escalator, supermarket, bus stop, etc. Well, I HATE that!!! Because why the hell is he looking at other females?! What's more, when a pretty & younger-looking one with dyed hair walks by in a spaghetti top, he will turn his head slightly to look & because my hubby's eyes are big, I can see his eyeballs turning from right to left! Immediately I will get very angry & shove him in his arm to stop him from looking, or I will make a loud 'tsk' sound & frown at him. Or if I am brave enough, I will ask him "Why are you looking at her???!!!" And his face will turn black (because he is angry that I caught him looking). To me, all these looking constitutes mental straying & I have ABSOLUTELY NO tolerance whatsoever for that. Period.
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i find it's perfectly normal to look, but dont go overboard by keep thinking about it. sometimes i see big busted women i also ask my husband to look
if men dont look, i'll get more worried (wonder if he is gay or not). look ok, dont have dirty tots about doing it with other woman and dont do it with other woman can
yah... looking is FREE ... why cannot look ?
i also look at cute guys and then we will discuss about them!! Not mental staying right... this means your hubby chose you despite other younger, better looking chicks around, no? lol