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Can you forgive if your hubby cheats on you, but not sex with another woman, just a handjob/blowjob?
i can't accept my hubby to cheat on me.. if he ever do that, his life will be miserable..
I might forgive but i wont forget~ Saying i wont forgive is in my principal but i still have to tink of my children if my hubby ever cheats on me. It easy to say but hard to do it when real things happened~
i think i will not forgive nor forget... Though with children, i will not hestitate to divorce cos if he really cares for the feelings of his children and me, why does his heart get strayed so easily?
My answer is a clear 'NO'! Even mental straying is not allowed. PERIOD.
I always think I'm strong and would never put up with any type of straying. Anyway given my personality even if I did forgive him I would make my husband's life hell, and he would end up begging me for a divorce.
I think i aso can forgive but not forget so might as well divorce .. if not making his life like hell aso no good when kids saw it right ..
I dont't think I can forget and forgive.
i think i will divorce.. i can't accept it...
when things never happen to us, it's easy to say divorce etc... but when it happens to you, you might start thinking of your kids, of what you both went thru to be together, the yrs you've been together etc... it's not so easy to say the D word then... so i wun say that i wld divorce but he wld need to earn my trust again if i do decide to forgive him n start over... things definitely wun be the same anymore but both parties need to work very hard to make the relationship work again...
i dont think i can forgive and forget as well..
but will divorce anot... hard to say...
but since i cannot forgive... relationship will eventually lead to divorce ..
dont say Handjob or BJ, even by just kissing and touching i also cannot tolerate!
it makes me feel dirty when he wanna touch or kiss me again!!!
whether it's emotional or non-emotional betrayal, it's still a betrayal.
men usually tink with the wrong 'head'.
i dont't think i can take it too but not sure if i'll say the D word. I'll be very very hurt so hurt perhaps i wouldn't even talk to him.
Elaine01 - why do you ask this qns?
what makes you think that BJ/HJ wont lead to actual sex later on?
can the temptations be resisted?
i never believe it's ONLY a hj/bj.
for me, once a cheater, always a cheater.
i do not tolerate infidelity n will not.
in chi a saying : yi ci bu zhong, bai ci bu rong.
i live by that.
he's done it once, he'll do it again.
so its byebye for me.
i cant forgive n can never forget.
In the past, if my hubby cheats on me, I will think of all sorts of torture for him....make him kneel down on durian shell....clam shell....use all sorts of weapons on him....whips with torns....spikes....scissors...chopper.... but in the end, I chose to forgive him but not forget.
What to do....divorce is so easy....just sign paper and he will be free...That's why i want to make him my prisoner...ha ha ha.......... his punishment is to let me spend all his money....