hi meitoh, i kinda have similar feeling after having my first daughter.
My hubby also a simple guy and all he wanna do is to stay at home during weekend, play his wii or computer game. before married, he's the perfect type haha coz i won't be scare he would clubbing around outside on weekend but after married it's kinda boring boring to stay home on weekend most of the time... coz i am the opposite of him. I like to take fresh air outside.
Then come baby, which really tied me up to stay at home wether i want it or not, specially the first few months of birth coz they're too little to bring out in public places. Somemore the baby only do what she do best...nothing haha..
hubby also need to be told to help around cleaning room or take care baby, sometimes i felt like the baby is my own child and he got nothing to do with it.
There's fsome of the days i felt very very stressed out then i just decide to go out by myself. I just tell him that i need to get fresh air and leave the baby with him. But I didn't go too far thou, just go mall nearby haha.. then all the time i felt uneasy, thinking wether he can manage take care the baby or not, what if baby cry and can't stop, some more that time she still on bf but i told my hubby how to thaw the milk. So in the end i dont't really feel enjoying myself too...and all i shop was stuff for baby thou at home i plan to shop for myself. ahhaha...
But when my girl start to interact with people, i saw my hubby are getting closer to her...sometime i tell him that she's in a stage to see which parents she prefer, so if he never involved then forever she will feel that he's not important to her... then after that my hubby always want to do something for her... I guess he needs time to adjust himself in becoming a father, not someone who financed the family only.
Now my girl always call for 'papa' everytime she wakes up and always papa when she want to play, and my hubby also feel more fun to play with her.
I'm still a stay at home mom thou, think i cant find any work out there atleast untill my 2nd child bigger.
my hobby is sewing, so whenever i got really bored but can't go out then i will just make something out..hehe.