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Dear all, Pls help...i'm collasping soon... i feel my husband is having an affair. I want to check on him... but am afraid a PI will cost too much for me.. I'm a stay at home mother, no much cash.. I'm on anti depressant for 2 months plus..... I'm going crazy... I need a PI...
What's your purpose in getting a PI? To get evidence for divorce or just to get proof to confront him?
If you intend to use the evidence for divorce, you'll need to go to a proper PI company for the evidence to be valid as all their investigators are registered with the police & have to submit written reports plus video/photo evidence.
If your purpose is only to confirm your suspicion & not to use in court, then I have contacts at very reasonable prices if you are able to provide good leads (what time he's going out, where he frequents, etc). These are trained PIs with many years of experience but if you need proper documentations, you'll need to go through the company, which will cost alot more. Unless it's a very simple case like you confirm know he's going to on certain days & quite sure on the location so it'll be easy to 'capture' then they can negotiate the price.
Usually it'll cost around $3k for a very simple/direct case. For more complicated cases, it'll be more exp. For those that are freelance one, few hundred dollars can get already Some might also be willing to accept installment payments (but they might only show you the evidence, & only let you keep it when full payment is made).
Empty vessels make the most noise
maybe you can try ask your friends for help first.
btw, what made you feel your hubby is having an affair outside??
what caused those doubts? would it be you thinking too much??
try to relax! it's bad for your health~
my husband spent most of his time outside... from early morning to late night. he wouldn't even give me a call or msg when he's outside the whole day. he keep saying he's busy getting listing as he's listing no more on hand oredi. but he got time for facebook! i recently found out he got a secret facebook acct! when i confronted him, he says it's for his agent networking! BULLSHIT i told him... he got a acct under his name also, why cant he used that? I really cant take it anymore, i'm a stay at home mum, there's not way i could run a thorough check check on him.... he's too good a lying!
dear daddies & mummies, pls help me...
he keep saying his busy..... but woman 6 sense tells me something is just not right somewhere..... i dont know... i just feel something is not right!
bt dont let this kind of thing depress you... itz not good 4 you... 4 PI most r very ex... costin more then 2k onwards... bt you have 2 know his timin very well in order 4 dem 2 follow him...
i also wish i could hire 1 2 find my dat jerk... bt i think it wont b necessary... coz i gv up on him oreadi...
dont think so much... btw r you pregnant or havin kids @ hme? if yes, then b strong 4 dem... dont let your emotions influence dem 2... take care *hugz*
is your husband a property agent? my hubby's an agent too. what makes you feel like his having an affair? does he talk secretly? what about checking his phone?
Could I suggest that perhaps your husband is also stressed by the lack of potential leads and since you have a baby, he could feel the financial burden more. Actually, it could be reasonable that he keeps a seperate facebook account for work, after all, its going to be mainly used to liaise n network.
Since you feel something's wrong, perhaps you should straight up talk to him. You may find out he has his own set of worries.. Be positive k, and take care..