Can understand how you feel n the way you behaving now. Given to me i wont tolerate such thing frm my dear husband. Doing such thing is irresponsible toward family, been a husband it is bad as he is married BUT do both of you still engage in sex? But then even if both of you dont, he aso should do such thing n he is risking himself n family towards AIDS.
Think properly if you are willing to forgive him or not. If you are willing to forgive him then dont mention about the incident anymore n i tink it is better for both of you go for consulting as tis incident already put strain on the marriage.