Well Said. I have a sis-in-law from Hell too so i can understand you Jaime. but dont get mad, get even. The more you still go to your in-law's plc, the more she is irritated, so IRRITATE HER! ahahahahaha. Smile and show you are happy since she's always not happy. That will get on her nerves. Do it for your hubby, who is between his family and you ( put yourself in his shoes. If he's a nice guy, its worth it and he sounds really nice and understanding). Your in-laws are quiet because as parents they dont want to lose their silly daughter. But I am really sure that they are thank ful that you have been understanding all the while. so, dont deprive them of your kids presence. Besides, your hellish sis in law also has 2 daughters of her own so she will get a taste of her own medicine soon. Buddhist rule: whatever you do, good or bad, will come back to you three times the amount. You be good and happy. Let her be the pest!