I felt that my relationship/feelings towards them changed after delivery.
Before that our relationship was pretty good, plus I'm a more easy-going type. But when baby arrives, I want certain things to be done my way, and they'll be questioning me or just dont't bother. Hence hubby got into alot of arguments with them because of that. I dont't feel that they are judging me, but I dont't like how they prefer their own methods and just doing them instead of asking us (I'm a stay at home mom, I'm always around her!), and how they would just push us aside and rush to her the moment she cries or just snatching her away from us. I sometimes felt as if they dont't respect me as her mother. Hence now our relationship is like a rollarcoaster, one minute up, next minute down. lol