Soli ... what is SO?
This is a discussion on do you trust yr SO?? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; do you ??? what you would do if he betrayal yr trust ? if you lost trust on yr SO ...
do you ??? what you would do if he betrayal yr trust ?
if you lost trust on yr SO how???
it hard for mi to trust dear husband again if he did betray my trust
for mi i trust my dear husband alots
bt once he betray mi that's it
so far he didnt
Last edited by deardar; 12-10-2007 at 11:00 AM.
Soli ... what is SO?
For me till now i still trust my dear husband n give him the benefit of doubt BUT if he ever betray me i dont tink i will easily trust him once again. If i lost my trust in him OF coz he have to slowly gain it back coz trust is to gain back not for granted.
SO = dear husband/husband
Lately ppl using SO but still dont know what it stands for .... thot I the only 1 dont know so paiseh ask
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sometime will have some doubt about the thingz dear husband say....
Hmmm.. deardar, before I proceed to share.. Like to share our (me and some other mommies) observation: all the rest of the threads by other mommies, almost 100% start the ball rolling 1st except you.. No offense ..
Hmmm.. we are just curious why huh? So, care to share this topic you initiated, please?
p/s: - I'm asking this question as a fellow member, not using my mod status.. Mod is still same, we are members of this lovely forum.. Just that we have added responsibilty to assist the admin and all members here.. Cheers!
Last edited by aby; 12-10-2007 at 09:01 AM.
I trusted dear husband 101% until he had ONS 3 years back, before we had dear son.
I was devastated. It even affected my work performance.
Until now, I cant trust him totally. When there's a 1st time, there's bound to be a 2nd time.
Even an honest man like dear husband can do such things, which cat dont eat fish?
I still love him................
SO = Significant One
ONS = One Night Stand (Like you go to a club/pub and standing one whole night )
So my SO is my dear daughter can?
sometime it is so easy to say I would leave him if he betray me.. but really wonder would I do that if that really happen? think of the children....
How about you?
To trust after betrayal is difficult, but to b fair to those who betray, to regain the trust is also difficult.
I wanna trust dear husband for our marriage to work. He'll wanna regain my trust also for the marriage to work. It'll all boils down to how much love were involved, I tink. Thou I hate to agree, but to have a betrayal, all parties plays a part.
Agreed with Crashz, it's easy to say what I wld do if it happens, but when it really happens.....it's all so different.
Treasure what we have now.
My BL betrayed my sister In law 2x!
BL got hooked to sister In law's best friend, his only son's godmum. Told sister In law will breakoff but went underground. sister In law found out, was so so SAD and MAD + mother in law side all the ppl of same surname (total 9), 1 neutral, 1 felt BL wrong, the rest fully support'the same surname. . Fully support means talk/chat with hu li jing n that unfaithful man.
I and 2 other SILs ignored that two assholes. sister In law n BL divorced. Once sister In law chase BL out of house, BL lived with hu li jing (bitch). Officially brought that bitch to family gathering until lately (5yrs later), the 2 SILs gang up (I wasnt involved cos they dont want me kanna burnt) to make their stands clear - that woman appear in family gathering, they'll appear but just a hello n go. So mother in law n father in law who never 'disciplined' their son nor stand for their poor daughter in law finally got the meaning of 'intruder' alert. mother in law/father in law claimed they tried to speak to daughter in law but she shut them out.
err, you mummies know what I trying to say ? Like so confusing.
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If he betrayed my trust once, i wun hesitate to leave him.
I believe, there's better trust-worthy man out there.
if one has no trust, isnt it like creating more problems ahead ?
i have asked this question to myself so many times. Until now i still dont knw if i will leave my dear husband if he betrayed me. Did caught him a few times of lying to me... as for cheating I am not sure. Did not see, did not hear, but do suspect. When i caught him and confront him about his lies, he still insist he did not lie. Was so disappointed and angry with him. From that day on, trust has been broken totally. Now he is trying very hard to regain my trust and i must agree that i do start to trust him back. But at the back of my mind, the same question will pop out again. Will he lie again? Will he cheat on me? Its easy to forgive, but its not easy to forget.
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I dont't trust my dear husband at all . Perhaps once bitten twice shy and I'm afraid to trust again .
eh last time dont trust at all but now totally cos i'm tired of guessing everyday haha.. i just tell him dont let mi catch or else he would be DEAD MEAT !!!! whahaha but guess he dont dare haha