Throughout my 2nd pregnancy till delivered and now my gal already turning 6 months pretty soon, my mother in law didn't show any concern, not even asked about my well-being during my 9 months pregnancy. During the day i delivered, only when my hubby went to her place to fetch her then their whole family come to visit me, else, i doubt they will so hardworking and free to come by themselves, she simply buy a 6-pk brand chicken essence and leave it on my table. She did not even bother to ask me take care, rest well. She simply hated me so much!!! During my confinement, she only visited me ONCE and during our full month celebration, she only came at 7pm whereby our party started at 5pm. She treated herself as a GUEST, not the host.
From all these onwards, my heart sank. She ever treated me very well and be kind to me. But after some previous arguement and conflicts, she began to treat me coldly and till now, couldn't hide her hatred any longer. And for me, I have always been giving my hubby "FACE" and tried my best to hide my anger and frustration. She treated my maid better than me, everytime we went to her place, she will ask and take food/drinks for my maid and dont bother about me, to her, I am just transparent. Anyway, I never ask for money, even just a concern I really appreciate, somehow, she never forgive me. She ever told me I am half a daughter of her since i married her son, but, if this is true, will a mother not forgive her daughter. All pack of lies.
So now i completely stop visitng them. They never ask either. Perhaps this might be the right and correct path to carry on as this will stop all the unhappiness between everybody.
But in my heart, I am feeling very upset