Oh D is for divorce. Maybe it is better? At least get allowance decided by judge? But can't think of it. I do not know whether this kind of arrangement is common? Because his brother is also same, my sister In law doesn't get any too. I ever complained to his sister, and his sister said that's the way should be. So beginning I was thinking maybe I am just too calculative but from the advices that all of you have posted here, seem that it's not right. I complained becoz I cannot take it anymore, keep paying and paying.