As long as your hubby never beat you.. still alright! But really think for yourself if you are happy now ? For me.. I love myself too much so I will never allow my happiness n life to be ruin by a man like that. If like what you say he is a family man .. He will provide you with everything without you even paying.
My hubby is also a family man.. Dont know how to express himself well also.He believes in contributing to his parents by giving monthly expense & $ for them to go traveling themselves. After marriage.. He does that to my parents also. So every year my parents gets to travel paid by hubby.
My hubby doesn't say that he love his parents but he will do & give whatever they requested. This is what a responsible man should do! Talk less & just do it!
Sorry .. Over here I really feel sorry for you that you are being treated this way.. very sad.. But no matter what our advice for you here.. Everything is up to yourself.. What life you want to continue .. no one will blame you for choosing the wrong choice .. As long as you are comfortable just go ahead to do whatever you want to do !
Take care okie !