but i do accidentally scream at him if he did something he shdn't accidentally and i will apologise after that..
from what you mentioned, your hubby holds a superior position right? i think maybe he's "used to" bossing around in his wkplace and when he reach home, he tend to forget that that's HOME not wkplace..
ask him not to "stress" you!!! lik my dad, he always scolds my mum whenever she forgot to turn off light/fan.. then my mum kinda "stress" whenever her off day at hm cos dont know when will get scold LOL...
but now she got a tactic to "shut" my dad's mouth. she'll always say to us "OH! must rmb to switch off light/fan if not i'll kanna scold, i so scare alrdy... so STRESS even at my own house!" LOL!