This is a discussion on Does yr mother in law have yr house keys? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Eh... I was thinking the reason why mother or mother-in-law would ask a set of our house keys is because ...
Eh... I was thinking the reason why mother or mother-in-law would ask a set of our house keys is because they see it as a physical way of connecting with us, as in the key is something they hold onto to make them feel secure in their relationship with us; that they are still our mother/mother-in-law despite us no longer living under the same roof. After all, we had lived together for at least 2 decades? That's a long time, aww...
oh.. i will never let my mother in law have my keys.. though she ensure that she will not pop by as and when, but i still dont feel secure. cause now, even when i lock and door when i am sleeping, she will open with her spare keys. we r staying tgther now while waiting for my new flat..
crazy mother in law, trying to show off & tel ppl that at least her 2nd son welcomes her iszit. idiot!
well, tats becos currently her 2nd son is married & staying with my inlaws, & my mother in law is main caregiver to his 2kids, so to mother in law, is only right that she will stay with them. she even said her 2nd daughter in law said this room is for her!
I hint her i was very tire n she can still talk n talk till my hubby came back fr work
n saw her n JUMP "mum, why r you here?". STupid , the only reason she come is to count n check her jewellery .
that is y i told my mum, dont even tink about wanting to stay at my bro's house after he's married. so what if she get along well with his wife, staying together is another thing.
although my bro said he will leave a spare key with my parents, i seriously told him to reconsider becos he must tink of his wife.
sometimes i tink, i so nice can give advise to my own family, y cant my hubby side tink of me also, y they so inconsiderate & selfish. idiot!
my hubby mention to her before not to just pop into the room when i am around... somehow, it just didn't get into her mind.. and you know, it's not really convenient cause sometimes, i can be kind of exposing myself when sleeping for more comforts... =x
my husband got a silly suggestion. he say let your mother in law catch you n husband 'live in action'. then go say y she come interrupt her son's pleasure when you r suppose to be in the privacy of your own home.
she does't have yet but ask for one cos we're moving out soon in weeks time. Now dont know how to refuse...
Still, she didn't bother to call before coming over until i told my hubby to tell her to recently.
Actually i'm thinking it's actually not that bad to let her have a set of keys and call before coming over. Coz so far when i know she's coming over, i can 'siam' and go out with my darling (if she's not napping) coz usually if my mother in law comes over on other days except mon and tue (which she cooks dinner for us) she'll be bringing over some stuff for us which she can just leave it there and go home. Hmmm.. so i'm still thinking if i shld continue with this practice and give her the keys to my next house...
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