I am so sorry to hear what you having to put up now. I dont really know what to say but I hope you guys can work it out especially with your lil one coming. Take care and God Blessbeen keeping this in my ear for few weeks .. now its time for mi to vent it out.. thx to all the mums and mums-to-be bear with what i type..
i have been staying with my hubby's parent for 2 years.. We have not ROM.. but decide to do it next year as i'm now about 32 weeks into my pregnancy..
before i'm pregnant, there is a tenant renting a room from my future-in-laws.. and hubby and i have been sleeping in the living room for the past 2 years.. then when i discovered that i'm pregnant in jan tis year.. hubby talk to his father in march regarding asking the tenant to move.. but father did not give a ans straight.. he drag till end of june then say if we want him to move, we have to pay for his deposit.. then hubby say its ok.. we will pay and we will also pay for the PUB bill.. so we tell the tenant in the beginning of july.. he complained that we give him 1 month is not enough.. he say he going to stay till end of september.. then father never say it in front of hubby.. is wait till he left for work then tell mi.. so i say its impossible.. cos my EDD is in mid sep.. then i have not prepare all my baby stuffs.. that is when dispute step in.. mother-in-law suggest that when i give birth, baby and i both sleep in living room for 2 weeks since it makes no different as the tenant is moving at the end of september.. i was like WTH? i straight away call hubby and tell him.. he was totally pissed off.. then he tell mi dont do or say anything.. wait till he is back.. hubby back from work, went to ask father-in-law what the tenant say.. father-in-law said the same thing as what he told mi in the morning.. hubby say impossible.. cos i'm getting nearer to my EDD.. then father-in-law say both of us are being unreasonable..
for the past 2 years.. we did so much things for the family.. hubby's younger sis got a daughter.. but she doesnt look after her.. the duty of teaching her what is right and wrong falls on us.. if there is anything broke or what.. we are the one who spend $$ to buy or get it repair.. whenever hubby get his pay, we bring the family out to eat.. normally the bill is shared among us and hubby's elder sis.. niece sick, we bring her go see doctor, pampers or milk powder runs out? mother-in-law tell mi, meet up with hubby to go and buy..
end up, we request for such a small thing, they say we are being unreasonable.. whatever we did they never saw.. onli concern things that link with money.. like few weeks ago, hubby bought 2 new fone.. one for himself and one for mi.. both in-laws straight away ask we change fone arhz? then hubby say you care so much for what.. after tis incident.. we totally wash our hands off everything.. wats the point of doing everything what they want and end up what we request can turn everything upside down?
at times it make mi feels that, younger sis daughter is their grand-daughter and the starlight of the family.. whereas my daughter is like a nobody to them.. feel so f***k up..
sorry for the long post and the f word..