My mother in law was no better.. She fed my no. 1 some Chinese herbs to rid the jaundice.. baby ended up puking brown stuff and she blames it on me.. She was on good terms with my hubby's ex.. Though hubby and her totally hasn't contacted at all.. On one day, the ex visited.. My mother in law insisted my hubby keep in touch with her remain as friends.. This caused a big tension between hubby and me.. And once hubby and me quarreled over an ex's SMS.. My mother in law said y I want to get in my hubby's way of making friends.. I told her nicely that I bore him a child, shouldn't he be more mature to avoid getting in touch with his ex? Hubby kept quiet.. But my mother in law said just a grandchild, no big deal.. If she wanted grandchildren, she might as well ask her son to bear with other woman... She didn't know I was expecting my no. 2 then.. I aborted the baby becoz of her words..