Oh no, I am not bothered at all because my kid is not involved in this discussion. As parents, we can't ask them to do this or that due to age factors. Kids' maturity comes in many forms and as a parent we have to guide them accordingly. When I was 14, I was collecting cutie figurines to fill up my pencil case, but my 14 years old niece is collecting friends from facebook. We have to move along with the younger ones when it comes to many areas, but I always believe in building up a stronger and healthy foundation for them to start off with.