This is a discussion on House Cleansing For My Haunted House within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by pkshl you mean she followed you home just like that? you mentioned you saw her once, how ...
do b careful when choosing fengshui masters. cos most r out to con $ to buy their 'auspicious' but useless items. for shifu or mediums, also mus b careful. those who charge an arm or a leg r most prob trying to con your $. shifu / mediums, proper decent 1, r not supposed to make $ thru helping (it's their promise to the gods). they r only allowed to take a small amt of ang bao $ (usu less than $50). so once they charge you in hundreds, they r conning your $ . same for those who ask you change name n help you change name. if you pay more than $100 for it, you r a BIG 'carrot head' already.
lim65 > where you stay ? very scary . i'm glad your kids r not harmed seriously when 'she' was around. hope you n your family will live in peace for as long as you all r there.
omg, it's really terrifying. You're really lucky got one gui ren to help you which is the 2nd feng shui master to help you. Glad to know everything back to normal. Hope you and family can stay there happily again.
Just saw your thread.. Really scary rite.. I too used to have this kind of problem but for myself it dont't really harm us but i feel like it like to play with me hide & seek kind of stuff.. The one in my house is a small boy around Pri 4 or 5 of aged.. Not sure lahh.. Ever i went talked to this uncle he say there are that stuff in my house but not sure if it is harmful or not.. He say that It looked like a botak kid but dont mistaken It have a long neck with human body and looked like a snakes from far.. My 1st dotter seen it when she and grandma sleeps in the living room at nite she shouted got snake watching her.. Me had rent out my house and August returning back there.. Sure migraine and pain2 coming back to me.. I wonder if your master can do for Malay's house?? I may try to call on that uncle 1st if no cure then will find your master..
Last time ever call on one Malay Master and he say he had chase the thing away, but still i can feel it is still around.. And thats where my dotter seen it too.. sigh!! At 1st my family dont't believe me cos i am the one who always can feel it there but one day each of them ever experience a bit by dreaming or while sleeping being disturbed then their face started to change ..
Huh Mama-Ina, you also experience so scary thing? Sometimes never provoke them also dont know y they will follow. Lucky that thing never do anything harmful to you and family. Hopefully you can settle it soon. Take care.
Background on my house
a resale flat with a history of drowned baby.
Background on my shifu #1 - BBSZ in short
Know him for over 15 years. Cured my mum with last stage of liver
complication due to hep B twice. Doctor says its miracle.
Known for curing complications and illnesses.
Recent 2 years, eyes have lots of problem almost gone blind, then
ok then now almost blind again.
Background on my Shifu #2 - AMKGY in short
Was a distant relative which trace guan yin buddha in her early
Known to go around asia catching spirits either using her soul or
Good for children problem. Now getting very old.
Background on my shifu #3 - MWJY in short
Recommend by my in law who is member of one of the want Xiang Tang
in SG. However, he is not the shifu in that temple, but rather the
shixiong of the temple shifu. Often not around in temple due to i
believe some power struggle before with the shifu or temple
committee. Know nothing about him. But he claim that he is a good
ghost negotiator and relates me some of his acheivements.
Background on my in law neighbour - EKZZ in short
This kid age 15 i believe, is someone with divine bones. Currently
cultivating with a temple following trainning from guan di ye gong
He can use his soul to follow anyone to any place in singapore
Story is like this
My elderest daughter is now 3 yr old. She got 2 sis age 1.5 and few
Since mid of yr2006, she would for no reasons wake up at nite.
In worst case, she would not wake up after trying to wake her up
for 30mins. And some time, she would talk to the air. Her temper
and behaviour changed alot and would bite her sisters.
2007 april, she started to cry every now and then and get irritated
She is heading for the worst. We've brought her to thailand for
holiday and she is still having nightmare at nite. During in
thailand, i do see some formless thing moving on the wall that
nite. for 4 nites, she had cried for 4 nites with difficulties
waking her up.
Then after coming back, we want to bring her to AMKGY, she keep
crying and we had to force her into the temple. I related to AMKGY
that my house might have problems. But she say pray to room diety
first, the nite i prayed to room diety, my daughter cried and
finally wake up from her sleep then she point to a location on the
way and shouted "go away" !
This happen for a few more nites over the next 3 months. We realise
that sometimes if we bring her to mrt or places that is yim, she
looks like she can see those things.
Then in August, we bring her to BBSZ, again she does not want to
We force her in and perform the usual ritual with her body
struggling. After the ritual, she appears normal. BBSZ give us
amulets for burning and mix with water for her to drink for 5 days.
Things improve for a while, at least she dont't appears hard to wake
up during nightmare nor point at the wall. But during the day, she
is still talking to the air at times.
She started again in October, pointing to the walls and shout go
away during the middle of the nite, usually it will be between
1130pm and 430am. We approached BBSZ to come my house, before he
come, he give amulet to burn and mix with rice grain and salt. This
is effective evenly without the hu, which i've done a few times but
always after a few days it will be back.
The next first day of new lunar Calendar, BBSZ came and wash the
statue of my guan yin. Then using his huat soh to wack at some
locations in my home. The moment BBSZ left, my girl ask, where is
"Jie jie" !!! OMG !
Things more or less settled down for the next 2 months, then all of
a sudden, she started having nightmare again. This time we bring
her to want Xiang Tang. A few amulets was drawn and instructed to
have some actions over 3 days. That 3 days was again peaceful. Then
just went we thought all will be good from now....it happened again
On the 4th nite, she woke up from crying in her nitemare after 30
mins of trying to wake her up, she started shouting to the wall "go
away" fanatically, then i shouted at that direction too and she
stop and calm down. however after 10 mins, she shouted the same
The next day, without my knowing, my in law EKZZ mums to my house
without my knowledge as they know i do not like it as i feel that
EKZZ way of doing things is invading my privacy however so far what
he had communicated to us is correct. EKZZ can actually "Gan Yin"
more with his mum, hences he wants his mum to come while his soul
The moment she step into my house, she claim she saw a lot of
"them", all kids, hiding behind wall picture frames. And the Altar
is taken over by the house spirit which i suspect the the previous
owner's kid. She also claims that guan yin statue already being
taken over by the kid spirit. Which this part i do not very agree.
Also, she said spirits are going in and out of my daughter.
Firstly without my consent she come, secondly she say i am praying
to spirit all these way. Next she say must ask her son to choose a
new statue for me. Now i realise that she might want to use my case
for her son's experiment. So what she say might not be what her son
wanted to say. Finally, i told my dad in law to get in touch with
MYJY. That woman appears not happy. However she left a hu which she
claims guan di ye gave her son, and her son will be there thru the
hu to fight off those spirits.
True enough, that nite nothing wrong. And the next morning, i was
meeting up with MWJY. The first thing MWJY was telling me is that
guan yin statue taking over by the spirits is impossible. While he
is in the house, within 10 mins, he brought me outside the house an
d say confirm, a female child spirit age about 6(later on confirm
it was 10yr old but appear as 6 yr old looking) was spotted.
MWJY talked to her and found out that she speaks little and only
understand cantonese (we also found out later from EKZZ that she
seems to understand only cantonese, BTW the previous owner's speaks
cantonese to his wife). MWJY warns her that if she wants a good
time after MWJY is here, she had to show MWJY that over the next
few days, there's no mischieve from her. MWJY also told me that she
complaint that she hate to be splash with rice grain plus salt and
amulate ashes. This point, only my wife knows.........now i
beginning to trust this MWJY.
I told MWJY, i would want to re-install a deity statue and would
like a Guan Di ye. MWJY is reluctant as now i am praying to
GuanYin. After that, he proceed to ask both deity thru his ways and
he got 4 sheng bei from guan di ye and 2 from Guan yi. Off i go
with him to rochor for my Guan Di yi statue. with more confidence
now, i pay him the sum of money he requested on An Sheng and
promise him a big ang bao, total comes up to 4 digits sum. This
sound commercial and risky but i always believe in if he is not in
that capacity, he will not dare to request it. it will be worth it
if he is really that good.
A risk he took and a risk i took. I am risking my hard earn money
and he is risking his reputation. For the second nite, it was
peaceful. But on the third day, EKZZ say he could not handle
anymore as it was simply too many coming at him. So he ask us to
return him the amulate for he check the if its unbroken.
Then i now, i've got him out of the picture. on the 3rd and 4th
nite, nothing happen again. but on the 5th nite, my girl started
having uneasy sleep. 5th day, MWJY came and do a "Wang Wu" Ritual
to increase the good energy of my house then "seal" my house all
entrance including windows with his amulate drawings.
From 5th day to the day of "An Sheng" things are very peaceful.
The way he "An Sheng", he needs to spend almost 1.5 hour just to
kai guang the urn and accessories plus the statue and and another
45mins to invite guan di ye to "seat in" and even communicate with
guan di ye on various questions we have and instructions from Guan
di ye as well. My brother who is involve my many sintua say that he
is a faker.
But i know that once i've entrust him, i've to accept his methods
and how to pray to the alter he setup for my home. If he is a
faker, he can run away with my money on day 1 and need not spend
another few trips to my home. And he can put on a light performance
on "An Sheng" instead of using his concentration and i see he uses
lots of strength in drawing amulate on the urn. Only the family
involves will know if he is a faker. I would say i thank him
sincerely for his service and would continue to consult him with
big angbao for religious matter.
Last edited by mother of 3 gals; 29-06-2010 at 10:15 PM.
I've encountered many but in different situations. If your heart is strong, you will overcome it. Sometimes, I feel frightened and afraid for unknown reasons. It happened when I was weak.
dont't be afraid.
If your heart is strong and sturdy, you will be fine. BTW, I will have nightmares if I eat before I sleep. That's frighten me! Nowadays, I dont't eat before sleeping.
When you are afraid, face it. By turning to others for the sake of your temporary peacefulness is not going to work. If you think there's a shadow roaming around, open your eyes and see it. For all you know, with your eyes opened wide, you are actually seeing a light.
I moved to my current house about 3 years, so far, got about 5 maids wk in my house (due to transfer), about 3 complained they see funni things, but the family member never see , so we also dont know they really see or just pretend pretend lazy to wk.....
but last time before I move in, i got choose one good day and time, go to buy a packet of 7 colour flowers, go guan yin temple to pray, then take the HU burn in small pail of water, put in the flowers and soak the "xiao lui" leave, the I go inside my house, started from the right hand side fr the main door, I use the "xiao lui" to splash water fr the pail onto the wall.
then I go around the whole house wall in the "clockwise direcion, from one corner to another so that "they" have chance to gather and leave the house.....
after I go thro one round and reach the left hand side (stand outside facing inside the house direction), I will burn 3 joss stick and put at the door there......I will say something like "men shen (door god) I am xxx, I am the new owner of the house, any other things cannot enter the house without my permission and consent, thank you"
In addition, I will also throw salt and rice along the wall of my house, and also burn the "gam bong yin" (that smoke) then close the door and just leave it like that until the next time I go in.......