when you start work, you can give your mum some allowance, im sure she will be happy enough.Thanks all.
I went back to my own place after a fight with my hubby.
Sometimes I feel that if the husband is really nice to you then perhaps other things won't matter.
It feels really pathetic if you have to endure so much and yet your husband also takes you for granted.
Last sunday, I bought a camera (for taking dear daughter's pictures) which my sister sponsored and though dear husband volunteered to pay but I still insist on using the money from my sis.
Hubby is actually quite thrifty himself on certain things like clothes etc and he already felt guilty for spending on new clothes for work so I really dont't bear to let him pay.
Furthermore, father in law also has also asked for money recently. It's hurtful that dear husband tried to keep it from me (because of our fight i guess) but I saw him transferring money and asked him.
I really do understand what you all mean but I feel weird to ask him for money, really dont't know how to start or convince myself to do it. I am really scare of increasing his financial burden and like I said, his money is hard earned.
However instead of asking him to keep half of the first 1k from the baby bonus for himself (which I did before), I didn't reply anything when he said to pass me the 1k to deposit into baby's cda account. I feel very insecure that he is spending on his family mindlessly. What if there's an emergency and money is needed?
My mom asked me to look after dear daughter myself until after chinese new year next year then she will work part time and help me take care of dear daughter. One thing I really dont't know if I can hold that long (no income etc) and another is I shall be guilty that she still has to work part time.