This is a discussion on Hubby getting less romantic after birth of our children within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by Oppsgal I am not into getting flowers, as flowers will be "gone" in a few days. When ...
In the years that we have been together, I only received flowers three times and he barely writes - it was a long distance relationship. I had no proposal, no engagement ring - just a wedding ring.
Being a Frenchie, my hubby gets teased a lot as people assume that he must be romantic. If we measure romantic by Hollywood notions, my hubby would be the last man on Earth to be labelled as romantic.
Despite our differences and his so-called lack of romance, I'm still happy with it. My hubby, being practical, buys practical gifts or celebrate in a practical way. He is romantic in his own way and in private - likes to cuddle, holds hands, hugs, kisses, cooks dinner for me sometimes, etc.
To be honest, if he started giving me gifts and flowers, I'd get worried...VERY worried. :P
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Does it mean that hubby can take me for granted after I signed on the cert. and there is not a need for romantic ways thereafter? What happened to the dating days when he used to shower me with attention and stuff? So once confirmed and stamped, can easily trash the wife aside?
He has withnessed the 2 births of our children and know the pains I had went through, what is it so difficult to show appreciation?
As days goes by, he is getting worse as in taking me for granted in other aspects as well. I am so bloody pissed until I dont't want to communicate with him...