prepare for the worst. so that when the worst happen, you are prepared. and if good things happen instead, you will feel like you struck lottery, and appreciate and cherish more..
some things fated . force also no use. see this thread, so many mummies go through lousy marriage, meet bastards, end up divorce. in the end, they met someone who truly love them, willing to accept them, and, happily ever after.
the end is only when you step into your grave . so no matter how bad things are, its never the end of the world.
smile smile. then baby will be a happy baby. now not same . you gonna be mummy . must think of the little one .
give you moral support.