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Last nite while watching the 7pm show, hubby ask me, did mother in law boil me any tonics during my pregnancy? I say i forgotten and he mention NO rite?
then he think awhile & say it must be I say wrong things/tok w/o thinking to my mother in law so she gt angry... ...what F***?? I told him, stop , alredy over, no need to bring it up, if not mother in law might think is me who raise this issue up... ...lucky she not staying with us.
She gt angry with my husband about table arrangement on our wedding nite, then quarrel infront of me soon after our wedding nite...so this is CORRECT? & told me, no need to go for pregnancy check up as if this child is urs, it will be if not mean to be urs, it wont? I even try to console her after that. bt upon hearing that sentence in bold, i LOST my respect to her totally.
We discover that i am pregnant 2 nites before our actual day, she dont sound happy at all... ...I dont care about whether is she happy or not bt y shld she say no need to go for pregnancy check up as if this child is urs, it will be if not mean to be urs, it wont????
They all never communicate well, not my fault n that whole nite most of my relatives are there and she keep nag nag & nag for no valid reasons...keep press my hubby for table ...my hubby last min then do his table arrangement so gt crop up abit, as some relatives say no ppl come in the end whiole family turn up so crop up ... ...never help much while preparing also, only knw tell my hubby who is coming bt never tell him the numbers ...so he thinks aiya....that day then say bah, since my side will have some seats available.
my mother in law is a woman who never does any housework. So expecting her to cook tonics for me is like expecting a pig to fly. So I moved back to my house and get my mother to cook for me, if I were you I would just ignore her. The most impt thing is your baby now
thank you, life have to go on, you r rite, i can do it myself, actually i do all tonic myself while i had my baby gal...
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ya true, i am lucky, bt meeting them once a week can be a headache too, as i also gt 2 see my baby every wkn, so my hubby insist we shld go back to IL place every wkn, wen we go back,they will behave like they are fighting for her, they like to give my gal chocolates, salty food to eat... ... then keep bring her to see ppl eat... dont know y they like to do this, earlier on, they say dont let baby see adult eat, wait in future baby will have habit of seeing ppl eat...bt in the end, every week, they are doing it. baby gt cough & phelgm still say give honey or pearl powder...anyone give your baby pearl powder???
My hubby say dont give bt she insist & keep say & say, then y'dae i went down with her for grocery & i take the opportunity to say out, she take medicine ne is getting better, that powder, we dont want to give dont knw,as dont knw if gt side effect anot... ..
She say she take alot and she also say take pearl powder good for complexion, have fair complexion, bt wen i see her complexion ... ok only ...like no effect on her ...WTF???
I give rice cereals, mother in law also gt things to comment...anyway, just forget & forgive , she is concern about tis granddaughter bah... keep telling me give mre cereals, dont care if she can anot, just like what she did to her sons, so no need to give milk bt baby cant take it what can i do?