This is a discussion on I feel like giving up life... within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by nesshermes you are indeed very strong, i believe you just give birth right? Your baby so cute. ...
Hi dear nessherm, have you approached HDB, you may want to check with them, what if you willing to give up your right to the house left by your dad, see what they said?
As for the house left by your dad, since now is co-owned by your brother and mum, and if they really not "overdoing" it, then I will suggest that you dont't fight with them, give up your right. Otherwise, you can always take revenge by trying to sell your house. Yes, no doubt they can disagree, but I think you have the right to get a court order to force them to comply.
As for legal fees, you can either seek try to go to the commuity center near your area to check, sometimes they have some lawyers willing to help you follow up at a very low price.
frankly speaking, dont't worry too much, your problem can be resolve, just that it will take time. When dealing with goverment officials, always remember, take down their names, date, time, what their advice. All things can be solved.
As for the MP part, hmmm, I think you need to pressure them abit , last time, my brother also want to apply for approval and PR for my sister In law, we went to the MP, MP refuse to help, but I reasoned it out with him, he helped us on 3 diff time (no choice, have to go each time w my brother). In the end, not only my sister In law (under wk permit) approved by MOM to get marry in Sg, she also got her PR. You see, MP can help one, but they will "test" you, so long as you can talk back reasonably, they will be more than wiling to help.
Last edited by MsKoh1973; 08-01-2011 at 05:27 PM.
i have already ask hdb about my case they told me that even now i disposal the share also no point as they have a rule that no matter what you gg to apply you can not disposal any hdb share within 30 month. i really too tired to even think for my future. now with a newborn in my life i dont even have any xtra time to do other thing. i just have to blame my life for this.
hav you considered renting a whole unit? you n family in common room n then rent out the master bedroom and prolly another common room? that way its less expensive n you have more liberty in the unit. (cooking etc)
my dear, at least you dispose now, the 30 month start counting from NOW, b strong, I went thru worst than that, I survive. It will be solved soon, dont think too much.
thank for all the advice. anyone of you know how they spilt the shares of HDB unit? will it be the vaulation price or the cash in hand they spilt. I heards some ppl say that since my late father pay the hs by cpf so even they sell the hs the money will go back to the cpf. so anyone have similar case before?