omg! something is rly wrong with your brother in law! you shld have jz reported him. what if he does dat to his own daughter too?Hi mummies,
I have long to post this tread but i have doubt..
Its about my bro IL...
It happen since 3 years ago and it still happen just yesterday..
Back in 2007
Me and hubby decided to rent out our current 4 room flat coz i was pregnant with my 2nd daugther and was experiencing bad morning sickness, vomitting almost the whole day, even when drinking plain water..I could not cook or do housechores..furthermore, my 1st daughter is on toilet train..It is very tiring for me..
So my sis offers to let us stay with her 5 room flat..she has no child at that time..just her and bro IL in that house..so we agree..
But it is one of my greatest mistake, as i had bad experience with bro IL..
In the eye of the whole family..(aunt, uncle, mum, dad) he is very innocent and caring (he has the innocent and humble type of face.. no joke) but after living together with them for the past 3 years..i really hate him very deeply till now, I swear i will never get to forgive him for what he have done to me..
he (bro IL) is working 2 shift (1 week morning, 1 week nite). whenever he works nite shift, every morning when he came back, sis ask him go market with her..he will not want to go..after sis went out..he will deliberately come into my room and ask me to massage him..which i didn't..
whenever sis not at home or sleeping in the room.. he will take off his pant and show his penis..and just try to stand on my way..
Like i was washing dishes, he will stand in front of the toilet doing that..i will dare not try to stare at him and run to my room.
There is one time when sis is sleeping in the room, i wanted to go to the toilet.. will need to pass the living room..i saw him mastubating..OMG!
There is alot more..there is even one time when he tries to hug me.. I am so afraid of him..whenever he comes home, it will make me shiver (no joke) I am so afraid that i hid a knife in my room seriously. At first, i dare not tell hubby, im afraid that he might end up fighting with him..until one incident where its beyond my limit..
He is holding his penis, when my 1st daughter (3years old then) is playing right in front of her..I just grab her and run to my room and locked it..That is when i decided to tell my hubby..But luckily my hubby advise me to think wisely..coz at that time sis is pregnant with 1st daughter after 5 years of marriage..so hubby told me to just stay in my room whenever hubby working..everyday i will leave in shiver..everytime i heard him comes home i will peek at the small space between the door and floor, afraid the tries to break in..he got the keys to all the rooms in the house..I am very sad and frigtened..its my worst nightmare.
I did not tell sis or anyone else for the sake of the baby..
I have already moved back to my own house this year..But it does not end there, He did it to my 6 years old younger sister too!! Now at least i have somebody to cling hands with if time comes for me to tell someone bout him..
But what worries me is that will he do it to my niece..i kept worrying bout the little one..what should i do....