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As above. How?
what happened?? hate your hubby also will have some reasons behind it that triggles?
?? if you hate him so much why you married to him??
He must have did something so BAD that you hate him so much? Care to vent out our fustration?
SUPER hate him then divorce him, simple as such.
since you hate him, means wont be able to get along, whatever he does, even if its good, you will still think its not good. so whats the point of both parties (3, if you have a child) suffering n being miserable?
my logic in relationship is very simple n straightforward. if you really dont love him anymore, n in fact HATE him, then no point being together anymore.
HATE, like love, is a very strong word.
to hate someone you love so much (i assume, since you married him), i think things r pretty bad already.
we cant advise you on HOW. bcos only YOU can decide HOW you want it to be.
if you feel you cannot remove the hate, then divorce.
if you feel that it is something that be resolved, then have a heart to heart talk with your hubby, work things out n find a solution.
Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
Ya I agree with Ting......hate is a strong word.
Are you hating him out of a moment of anger? or really Hate him?
If a moment of anger, then sit down and have a talk with him....let him know how you feel, communication is impt in relationships
yes i agree HATE is a strong word...
communication is also super duper important in a marriage...
for mi i dont believe in divorce especially you got a baby... except he got adultry
sit dwn n work things out...
god bring 2 of you together for a reason...
go thru the hardship and you'll see sun shine with rainbow...
Today you hate him becos he did something you r not happy about. How about that day when he propose to you, how about those days both of you were happily in love. Marriage needs both of you to keep the love burning and it tag along a responsibilty, if not we dont need LAW to bind us together.
Communication is the key to all r/s.
ya.. depends what is it about too...
character? something he did? xxxx?
can it be forgiven? or changed? or improvised?
i personally find if got kid divorce is quite a sad thing.. and the kid is innocent though..
but still if nth wrong..who wants to divorce?
i must admit there are times when i really hate my husband and i wished him dead even
BUT there are times when i really love him so much leiii
its berri extreme....kekekek....for my relationship with uncle nic
yaaaa.. sometimes some little actions my hubby does.. also irriates n anger me...LOl
Honestly, it's hard to give advice/suggestion/insight base on just one line, especially a generic line like "I hate my hubby so how?". =.=
If I'm going to be flippant about this thread, I would just go, "If cannot talk, then divorce ". That ought to sum it up.
Otherwise, it's hard to share anything if the TS isn't going to explain more about the situation.
if it is just a moment of anger, then its a different story.
i would think, if you r angry/dislike something he did dont equal to HATE.
I agree with Meiteoh and Ting.
You can't expect us to advise you on anything based on just one sentence, really.
I hate someone is not the same as saying I am hungry or I am thirsty.
I realised i quarrel with my hubby more since we have baby.
But marriage is all about compromising and forgiving, no1 is perfect.
Sometime when we quarrel, i will get very upset and have negative thoughts and ask myself "why i married him"!
But think think, if without him, will not have my cute little baby now!
The journey we had from the very first day we held hands till now we have a little bouncy baby! It take fate for two person to meet and get married, so must treasure and cherish each other.
But if there is 3rd party involved, then is another story, but otherwise everything else can be trash out and resolved!
A word HATE is easy to spell and LOVE is hard to say!!!! I think you just had a quarrel with Hubby so wanted vent it out right? Just share with us what happen and you will feel better after all others mummies advise. Cheer up!