hmmm so what you guys r tryin to say is IF she knows him from a chatroom is a nono.
so it is ok if she knows him outside? or thru a mutual friend?
say in your presence?
meaning, it is a grp outing/ gathering,then get to know him, you r fine?
what about if you know him?
say EG, committee friends, sports grp, church grp etc.
but say, you r not close to that guy, only hi-bye friend, but he is closer to your gf, eg, will sms sometimes, meet ups for meals BEFORE you n your gf got together, so after you guys got together, can she continue????
and if she continues, will you say its cheating/infidelity??