This is a discussion on Infidelity within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by Bitch On Soles Do you need a valid reason to tell your mum that you pregnant knowing ...
sorry but where there seems to be so much squabbling recently in mummysg?
hehehehe... on a positive note: just expressing POVs, except in a more avid fashion...
AND coupled with a slight side-track with some degree of reference to personal lives...
erm.... a bit off and uncounted for i would think? Better stop this side-track before the moderator lock up the track ... *edit: thread*
Last edited by JoyBliss; 29-10-2009 at 11:30 AM. Reason: *edit: thread*
I do not see there is any need to lock up this thread if the discussion follow the forum rules.
I believe everyone here is an adult and able to post with their better sense.
Just for the record, this thread does not cross any forum rules ... so just discuss and debate (have fun too)
Sometimes, it's our one-way thinking that drive others up the walls... Constantly temptations comes in all forms, all median. So hard to "avoid"... might as well make peace, make more love, so each won't have time to "stray" or give in to temptation! hahaha Marriage first started as a romance, takes 2 hands to clap to maintain the romance in a marriage, before it turns into an obligation/committment of the vows only (sad case)... "Stray" easily happens in the latter case.
[2nd ref] Aiyoh... become zombie this way... human with no emotion... Like that Life really meaningless... A Perfect Life? Perfect yes ... but Life if you still call this kind of living "Life"? I personally won't opt for it...
Last edited by JoyBliss; 29-10-2009 at 11:53 AM.
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I'm not comfortable with you going alone?
I'll be worried for your safety?
I'm not available to go with you, can you re-schedule?
I think it's a way of communication. If you put across the point as a controlling feak, like "because I dont't like it, because I say so", most probably the reaction will be negative?
Won't that save lots of problems if you let someone know what is going on rather then simply say that it is reporting case. No one say it have to be REPORT each time a person goes out, it is as simple just letting them know so they won't get worry.
Guess it must have been a tough job for some people like doing a reporting case each time they go out.
Reverse Psychology is is a persuasion technique involving the advocacy of a belief or behavior that is opposite to the one desired, with the expectation that this approach will encourage the subject of the persuasion to do what is desired: the opposite of what is suggested. This technique relies on the psychological phenomenon of reactancer, in which a person has a negative emotional response in reaction to being persuaded, and thus chooses the option which is being advocated against. Reverse psychology is often used on children due to their lack of psychological understanding and higher rate of reactance.
There are numerous examples of reverse psychology in fiction and cintema.
So which are you fiction or cintema
Who say we ladies are not able to make new friends be it online or outside the forum? That person MUST be shot dead down.
Girls chatting online being a very sensitive issue since a long time. Are you saying that YOU ARE STILL A GIRL AS IN A CHILD so that can be consider sensitive???
Surprising there are people who suggest themselves A YOUNG GIRL despite being a MOTHER already. My oh my, that is totally surprising
dont know what it means, lazy to read the defination.
what i meant by saying that is, by informing n reporting everything to the pther party, the other party will think, oh its ok, since my gf/bf/hubby/wife is telling me everything....
but end up, its just to let them think that way, but they r actually really having someone else outside.
You are totally right on this issue. Only a few bunch of people who doesn't seem to understand what it means by INFIDELITY. They STILL have the cheek to explaine that they are right despite being pointed out.
Guess their maturity level is damn low then 10 points
i am using girl as a term, you can think of it as woman, lady or just plainly FEMALE, whatever you prefer.
n if you r saying im calling myself as a young girl despite being a mother, YES I AM.
my oh my,surprisingly, some ppl really 没见识, never seen young mummies before.
now, that's new.