This is a discussion on Infidelity within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by Ting if your partner is uncomfortable, bring him/her along. if everyone were to put themselves into each ...
If it's meeting a client, then you dont really have a choice coz it's work. Even if it's meeting a poly friend or uni friend or colleague, as long as it's not regular, I believe that it can still be worked out. But even if you dont go, is there a huge impact to your life?
However, meeting an online friend just for a meetup or coffee....do you have a choice? Yes you do....cos in the first place you dont know the person, what do you have to lose? But of cos if you decided to go....and end up quarrelling, which has the bigger impact? You decide.
But like I said again, if meeting up a friend that you never seen before...what is the impact if you dont meet up ?? No impact, so is there any thinking to do?
So the choice is much simpler to make......based on the scenarios you have given.
unless you are require to be transfer to a foreign country for 2 - 3 years, maybe i will switch job.
aiyo, sorry, this is then really out of thread*
there are many what happen if..... hahaha..
if in a group of friend and was introduce to a new friend happen to be a lady, being a social human, i just play along so as not to be spoil sport and kill the night outing. but with limit.
then again Bitch On Sole,
what happen if the wife who frequent on internet chatting and she get warning from her husband not to do so especially chatting with guy in there. Does the wife still goes ahead with internet chatting with guys or does she stop herself totally?
or does she switch to sms with these guys instead so to continue chatting with them and also to avoid being detected by the husband?
Last edited by MasterBee; 30-10-2009 at 11:51 AM.
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Yeah Aries2Boy bro, meeting up new pple definite has its level of excitement. Who knows the other party might be a babe or hunk....
But then again....looking at the gross portion is not a given choice...else you will get nagged at all your life for not going in. Plus there is a reward awaiting. So in order to escape punishment and get the reward have to go into the delivery room.
But meetup...erm.....well...there might be a reward....but definitely a punishment awaiting...so it still ended up with zero benefit.
as MasterBee pointed out = what if the hubby already warned her not to chat with guys on the net? yet she go to that extend.... i believe going to such extend mean hubby is still in the dark.....
Last edited by Jss; 30-10-2009 at 03:08 PM.