This is a discussion on Inlaws blame me when my son falls sick. within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by p00h84 haha.. mummies here are so creative.. indeed some older generation always turns to spirtual advice.. my ...
my mum once secretly burn those aumlet into water and fed dear son! i was so angry and scolded her! baby's immune system is so low alrdy yet she go feed him such thing...
she blamed me cos i once brought dear son to see pediatrician during lunar 1st or 15th (1 forgot alrdy).. she said lunar 1st & 15th cannot see doc, later will always sick.. she said no wonder dear son alwasy ill.. so funny , dear son sick also must see calender and can decide whether to see pediatrician anot...
sometimes i really very pei fu all those elderly... their thinking very funny..
last nite i went to inlaws place to fetch my son(cos hubby bz at work). father in law said the medium said for the month of nov ve to be careful. the way he said like so scary, then when im home, i told my husband what father in law had said. he told me dont be so superstitious, his parents go & ask those poka cards & to him, he says is rubbish & those medium always use tatics to fool old folks. my husband totally dont believe, he even told me to ignore what they said.
pei fu right?? i also take my hat off them.. can even take my HEAD off .. when i hear and see what she did i almost faint..
but hmmz.. i never hear before lunar 1st and 15th can't see doc lei.. izzit during CNY or just normal months? and baby sick can choose which dae meh? but my mum definitely won't give my baby amulet water without asking me.. so that's a comfort..
Hi pksl, you are quite right, she seldom go see doc .. even sick until can't tahan , she self medication.. or if she happens to have the amulet, she'll burn n drink .. docs want to earn her $$ also difficult.. but , she always says last time she sees specialist see until broke.. so now no choice got to see normal GP.. and i think she dont like to see GP bah
sad to say that my hubby insist his mum taking care of my little one.. coz he said since leaving together with them, if totally dont let her take care, not right , then also his mum got nth to do at home, at least with the little one can kill time..
but i've managed to persuade him to rotate my little one between my mum and my mother in law... and already asked him to tell his mum that baby can't take amulet water at all and i dont like.. lucky hubby understand.. and by the way, he's the one who bring up the amulet water topic.. so i told him how i feel
HUH, why so weird!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
drink tailsman water?
i only tried once, cos my grandma past away then do prayers. i only take a tiny sip i wanna puke!
my aunt say let pin drink abit too, i tell her NO, crazy.
lucky my mum not those overly superstitious kind.if not i will vomit blood.
evn 7th month she also bring pin out til late lohh....
old folks are like that .. they have their own set of thinking and we can't change them overnight.. furthermore, my mother in law has been seeing this medium for many many year already.. even my hubby last time also drink tailsman water.. recently gave him a tailsman to "bao ping an" for his ICT and also normal lifestyle.. well.. this i got no objection .. as long as my hubby happy and his mum happy can ..
My mother in law too, that time when I'm still pregnant, think I got heartburn and was admitted to hospital, she went to pray to "Zhu Sheng Liang Liang". After I got discharge, asked to go tag along with her to pray. When I told my mum, she also find it funny, both she n I also thought, Zhu Sheng Liang Liang is for those who wished to have child then go pray.
She too quite patang too. Ask us try not to bring my ger out too late during seveth month. Then I told my hubby, then we should worked half day only for the whole seventh, cos by the time we fecth her, had dinner, reached home already quite late.
Last sat we went back, hubby used legs to move dear daughter's shoes to position, know what she called the next day to scold him, say cannot use leg to kick daughter's shoes, but hubby didn't even kick , say she started to learn to walk, no good.
When daughter was few months old, whenever we went back, she started to cry, then she will say see so long never come back, she dont recongise us. Then whenever she start to cry, she will say she got wind, must apply 'ru yi yu'. sometime, even she not crying, she try to appply for her also. Lucky my hubby knew I dont like, he will faster go stop his mum.
Actually my dad too. believe all these.
Know what, both my father n mother in law last time study 'english sch' wherelse my mum is in 'chinese sch', yet father n mother in law is so much believe all these no logic things.
actually for me, i used to apply ru yi oil for pin everyday after her bath.
she doesnt cry much in fact.. but just put only. hehe. cos i like the smell. :P
sigh.. when comes to patang thingy, i think we can help to publish a book .. especially during 7th month, a lot of dos and dons..last 7th month, my mother in law told my hubby not to go out too late.. quickly come back home early and especially me.. must be home before 7pm or 8pm.. but i heck care.. still stroll home at 9pm or 10pm.. she black face but i just bo chap, as i'm thinking: "my mum didn't restrict me, y you come and restrict?" a bit rebellion right.. but no choice..
then furthermore, at night can't hang clothes outside.. even not 7th month also cannot hang clothes outside.. i come home after work, all my undergarment wash can only dry inside the bathroom.. but when she went to sleep.. i hang my undergarments near the kitchen window.. not outside.. she also dont like.. but i insist doing things my way.. so i win..
my mum also lik that lahh... she said dear son cannot go out late during lunar 7th month, for this, i respect her cos i dont wanna anything happen then kanna scold again.. in e end she ask us brought him out together with her at 8pm! in e end dear son was tired and become cranky... my hubby so angry, cos dear son very tired at that time and my mum scold us!! she said we should stop her from bringing dear son out! -.-""""""""""""""
That day, the weather was so hot n humid. since she kept crying, we decided to go off, once we reached downstair, she stop crying, it was much more cooling downstair. She just like her daddy, will sweat like no one biz once there was no fans.
Last edited by jasyeo80; 09-10-2009 at 05:57 PM.
anyway, i also dunnoe what logic for me can't stay outside late.. like i said, when comes to patang thingy, there's always no logical explanation.. just that whether you take it or leave it..
quite true.. sometimes i also follow my mum's patang.. haha.. but anyway, will have to judge things on our won first..
we listen but that doesn't mean we have to follow.. now i also one ear in one ear out.. if not.. one ear in, process , then see whether want to follow a not ..