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Last edited by Mandy Wong; 14-12-2014 at 11:30 PM.
Last edited by Mandy Wong; 14-12-2014 at 11:31 PM.
My hubby dont SMS reply my MSG and I fine with that. Our relationship started in the workplace so I knew his pattern at work. He is focused in work and would usually not SMS back anyone including family members unless it important. I cool with that and now I usually also dont SMS him much also.
So now if there anything urgent it better to call and talk!
To the thread starter, dont't worry so much. He doesn't reply doesn't mean he dont care about you. That are many other ways of love expression.
My hubby busy at work so he seldom msg me or call me but when i call or msg him he will ans or reply but i only call him for urgent stuff. dont't like to disturb him at work but one thing is keep yourself occupied then you will not keep in thinking y he never reply your MSG
Mandy.. I think you are those 小鸟依人type... For me.. I'm more "man".. Lol.. I'm ok without any MSGs too... But anytime we need to tell each other something will call or text.. But did not expect a reply.. Unless urgent then I will call.. Hehe..
Perhaps you really need to find a hobby to occupy yrself? What do you like to do? Perhaps we can meet a few mummies and be friends.
we dont sms / msg each other as often as what we did during dating coz we will still see each other end day.... i think it is good this way too coz we can have our own space during working hours...
Hi, not to discourage any mummies out there. But my own experience is so real and painful. I am a stay at home mum attending to 3 young kids all on my own without helper. But I still make it a point to call my husband one a day to tell him that I love him, to remind him to eat his lunch/take care of his health and occasionally also tell him that how much I appreciate his working so hard for this family. He told me he love to receive my calls knowing that I have him in heart.. Everything look fine, he reassure me his love for this family and he will take good care of himself for kids and my sake.....but then.....slowly, a few of my regular calls turn out to be unanswered, only to claimed that he is very busy with meetings, conference calls etc.. From a few calls it became most calls then slowly all call and SMS - all unanswered and no reply---- only to find out thru words of mouth he had an affair. He still come home daily but only at wee hours..upon confrontation, he finally admit and said his feeling for me r gone and that he dont really love children...... My whole world shattered!!!!!!
oh dear!! so how is things now?