Hi i know how you feel i was once like you before with my x hubby. But he doest gamble just lazy too work. N i make a file divorce cause he was too lazy too work. Even my son have nothing too eat. I suggest you better hve 3 choices either 1) you stay with him but dont help him to clear his debt cause if you help him is like you r helping him to make more debt n make use of you n your marriage to clear his debt. 2) leave him now dont wait too long or you will suffer more left him with his debt n go family court pay $1 n ask for your child monthly expenses $$$.because he is the father n have to ask him go work give you child money not you give him money or use your child milk powder money to gamble. 3) if you think he can change n you love him n your marriage call d gamble hotline n go counselling if he change you stay if he never change than leave him or your life will be full of debt till old. P.S BABY BONUS MONEY MAKE SURE you TAKE DONT LET HIM TAKE LATER HE GAMBLE WITH your CHILD MONEY. N DONT HELP HIM WITH your SALARY you MAKING HIM WORST OF GAMBLE N HE MAKING USE OF you. IT ALL ON your HAND DEAR.