living with them is such a mental torment. I have been bearing and tolerate it from the start of my marriage and things got really nasty and worst when Baby came....
I am not living with sucn my in laws but The whole family including the unmarried sister in laws.
My mother in law n my elder sister in law like to yell and talk very.loud in the house and they like to say foul language like greeting .. I do not want my child before learning the correct word but say foul language like ABC, I have been telling my hubby several times from before my boy is birth untill now is still the same. Not only they like to say foul languages , they take my boy like a animal like that when they in the mood, they kiss and told him how much they like and dote him etc but when they are not in the mood, they are yelling and shouting at my baby for cry. And My mother in law have been yelling infront of my boy , due to that my boy like to yell and learnt to yell alots and almost everytimes yell at her then she can twist and tell my boy dont't yell , I dont't like people to yell etc.... how can you teach and coach my boy the correct things when you are doing it everydays.
I have been one taking care of my boy ever since He is born even is during my confindment, I make it amust for bathing my boy coz I totally cannot trust her bathing my boy. So my boy have been very sticky to me and will cry for me if they suddenly just carry him away, my mother in law actually call my son a sissy. Just because he is sticking to me and not to her and she is calling my 9months old a sissy.
My mother in law n elder sis in laws is a Bird freak and like to keep Birds as Pet. I am alrights by they taking as hobby. but nightmare and problem is they like to set the damn bird out of cage flying here n there.. Damn it is so unhygenic when i am feeding my boy and the bird keep flying and flapping its wings , which mother on earth will lets this kinds of situation happens even I told my hubby also still the same.
Just by yesterday which make me damn boil blood, my elder sister in law actually use my boy finger to play with the bird and use his hand to touch the bird. If I never step out of my room and saw what happen is she going to tell me that she use my boy hand to play with bird? then if i dont't know and she never mention anythings , then my boy just put his hand in his mouth without washing is she going to be able to responsible if my boy got mouth foot hand disease ? No, she can't even take care of ownself. She is already 30+ but. behaving like a child. and My parent in law still treating her like a kid.
Its really stress living with them .