To me, I will find another job now which is less stressful by lowering my expectation abit, and tell the interviewer that ideally I want to work in a work life balance job. This is to ensure that the next job I get is almost to what I want. Also, if I am being offered before the 13th month bonus, I will hop.. I won't wait... Coz to me, family is more important and there will always be another bonus next year. Of course, it depends on how you want to weigh the priority between you and career. If you r very career minded, then maybe you won't see the same way as I do.
I used to be very career minded, but my mindset has changed as I know I put family in priority. So I lowered my expectation and just work in a 9-5 job to ensure that I get to have more family time =)