Wow thats a bit extreme....never heard that one before.
How do you feel about it? Actually, I think if you can remember the person, it is OK. After I died, I dont think I want to be put in cemetery or what ever. I rather they throw my ashes in the sea, no need to come pay your respect. I m happy if you can remember me from time to time.
Or you can bury me upside down, anybody who doesn't like me can kiss my a**