This is a discussion on Pek Chey ! Fire !!! within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; wa.. FIRE sia !!! now my baby gurl ish only 4mth+.. my mother in law wadeva food also feed her. Including cheese, ...
wa.. FIRE sia !!! now my baby gurl ish only 4mth+.. my mother in law wadeva food also feed her. Including cheese, sweet and blablabla. c , I very FIRE sia. I hint her that she cant eat, she STILL FEED HER !!!
then now, I feed her the original Baby Mama, she dont want to eat . Cos no taste . walau ~ teach me what to do !!! BUAY TA HAN !!!
yeah dont hint already. 4 mths only!!just tell her strat canot eat.
omg, 4 mths eat all these, later gam zek next time ahhh~
its difficult to tell mother in law off...but bopianz~~ you gotta do it nicely......
everytime i bring baber to mother in law place, he sure comes home with cough and phelgm deee....coz ya , diff to tell the inlaws off.....zzzzzzz.....
tell them cannot, they will say "aiya last time we also like that or aiya a little nebber mind one ,......"
my son will be taken care by babysitteer who is my neighbor .. hope wont have too much problems .. i will also try to minimize contacts of my son with mother in law coz my mother in law always like to quote last time tis, last time that .. last time da wear hot pants!
Last edited by iceydragon81; 12-10-2009 at 03:10 PM. Reason: typo
Old generation sure say, this can that cannot but hey let them be...I have been there too...Till I am too tired to say or repeat myself. So if want less problems, either stay at your own house or try to avoid as much as possible. If not more FIRE...wait the whole flat came down.....
i agree with mummy reginakoh, just tell yr mother in law straight to her face, this concern about yr baby's health, it's a serious matter. tell her babies now and in the past are different. maybe you can tell her last time police wear bemudas, haha!!!
Or during next pediatrician check up bring your mother in law along and you can mention to the pediatrician that your baby has been eating all those stuff and let the pediatrician tell your mother in law not to feed if just your words are not sufficient...
Or is it possible to ask your dear husband to tell his mother?
yea.. hais ~ then now she cooks the gor gor one, my darling gurl dont wanna eat, she kpkb. then I tell her lors, "of cos lahs, that one no taste, she where want to eat? she now ONLY eat those got taste one lors.."
some old grandmothers just want to feed their grandchildren everything, anything so they will become chubby chubby.... they tink by giving the child tis and that, the child will grow chubby and CUTE... at least tats what my mother in law tinks...also anyhow give my child tis n that...
after her 4th month, this ish the list of items that my mother in law let her taste:
-Sliced Tender BBQ Pork 肉干
-roast chicken meat
powerful arhs? 虽然只是让我的宝贝舔那些食物而已，但是，我女儿已经不喜欢吃那些无味道的了.. but thanks god, she still drink milk. -.- *sigh*
Stuff like hot dog and bak kua is highly salted!!! Baby's liver cannot tahan lehh....
Actually when did you discover your mother in law feeding all these to your dear daughter??? That's quite a long list of things that she has gone through...
since she's 4mth old. n GUESS what? SHE FEED HER BAK KUA AGAIN.. still come in tell me, "you c, your daughter eating bak kua. she cried until bth, then I open it give her eat.. she stop crying.. hahaha"
but MY DARLING GURL ONLY want TO sleep, NOT want HER BAK KUA !!! -.-
liew... raelly fainted siah.... tonight when your dear husband come back better ask your dear husband to speak to your mother in law....
Ya... be present.... Make it clear... for the sake of your child.... The blame game won't do good to anyone....
wonder wats wrong with mils nowadays!!
I wanna sack my mother in law too.. But cannot, cos she stayin with us..
your mother in law too much ..bak kwa is oily..your baby liver cannot take it..
Feel that the husband should always try to side with the wife... Especially if the wife is correct.... Kiap in the middle, best is to be objective... Then can keep the peace.