This is a discussion on Private Investigator within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Lucky i was reading around and saw this forum if not i will just fall into a trap. Had contacted ...
Lucky i was reading around and saw this forum if not i will just fall into a trap. Had contacted the PI recommended by Karen. After talking to him i feel so much better. Now i got to decide when it should start.
no chance to ask my gals to take down as evidence already. Cause 1 of them already told my hubby he is hopeless n please dont call her about this anymore cause he is not listening n not changing. The other one will rebute my hubby when he try to say anything so my hubby also seldom call her. I dont think he will be in a delay mode as he mention to one of my gal's hubby that he missed the gal alot. but apparently it seems like its my hubby one sided affair. Its either the gal is not interested or she is playing mind game by playing hard to catch.
Anyway, not communicating has many reasons. Make sure its not because of your misunderstanding.
I am just sian with the whole saga... i really feel like giving up had also hired the PI. But i got to act as if nothing is wrong and i dont know anything but in fact I know alot of stuff.
Yes he is. and that gal is from his part time class and his class will only graduate this year end. in fact last fri he actually went out with her but told me he went out with camp mates.
i had evidence.
Its still not the time now to do anything as i want more concrete evidence.
I dont know whether to say he is smart or dumb. But that woman is smart. If my hubby is smart enough he wont be lead on by that woman when it is so obvious that now its mostly his one sided affair and the woman doesnt care much.
I also not sure maybe she is just playing mind games with him... guys like to chase after difficult to chase gals... or probably she like the idea of having someone there for her, enjoying every moment that my hubby accompany her, buying presents for her and paying for her stuff... Free ATM...but then at the same time hang herself high up in the air...
actually his 101 excuses that he made when you really sit down n think through it does not make sense at all... one contradicitng to the other... i buy his words the other time because i was so angry n upset that i cant think properly... now after so many things that had happen i can face this at a more calm state thinking all the stuff through n realised i was an idiot back then.
Nope we do not have kids at the moment. Had a MC last year... We were together for 10 years and married for less than 2 years... Find myself so stupid for not finding out earlier.
10 years a long walk, better dont't make rash decisions