This is a discussion on Private Investigator within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by newlife2010 hi I finally called the PI. But still deciding whether to engage him? Very afraid to ...
What I feel, it's better to know the truth early as you can stop them if they just started or if you know early, at least you can do some planning for yourself and kids if you have any, before he drop you the bomb.
Been few months of battle to stop everything included filing divorce and all the sake for my son, but it did not work well just all because of this VIETNAMESE BITCH LISA kept coming to my hubby everytimes. I was angry at all of time.
How much I really HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE this vietnamese bitch lisa for being sooooo CHEAP SLUT & HUSBAND-STEALER? I cannot tolerate it any longer.
On 11th Sept 2010, this *stuff* helped me to discovered one thing. I processed to bring my boy to the 5-star hotel at Outram Road to caught my hubby and this vitenam bitch lisa having nice breakfast in the morning. That was where they stayed overnight there. I know he checked into this hotels many times. I know very well enough to track him.
I finally got chance to face-to-face this vietmanese bitch lisa and stared at her fiercely. Yet guess what. She saw us and her hands was shaking. She just smiled at me.
She is simply a BIG BITCH PROS to my eyes. She is all no DECENT VIETNAMESE looking. She is more like those women at Geylang Lorong as the way she was wearing like this.
I never forget her face. I nicknamed her this. *Wont slap her as her face is full of toxics.*
Now we are in the process of divorce.
I let the bad karma do its job to punish this VITENAMESE BITCH LISA one day. Same for him too for lying to me so many times.
I know quite about this BITCH LISA. I know her name and where she stays. I wont bother her. Bad Karma will fall on her one day.
But I not sure if she is married or divorcee becoz she is still PR Sporean. *can anyone highlight me this?*
This BITCH LISA is a big obstacles in SG to cause so many divorces rising. I hate her very much.
Of course you all sg women sure hate her and the sight of her at all the cost. If you are the one who study beauty courses (like pedi, spa and else) at beautyeastaisa (forget its name) at Far East Plaza, shoo this bitch lisa away as she will be studying there and working at somewhere at alberts complex or what. I am sure you SG women know how vitenamese women look like, right.
I released those angers here finally.
hope you get the custody of your son .
Safeguard whatever you can now for the sake of your son.
how you know she is a PR?
yah... it's really a looooooong time since i last posted.
now, things are all on "probation". he keeps asking for forgiveness, trying all ways to be nice, etc.... and my parents keep asking me to give him another chance, so i am really confused. all the things are now put on hold and he is so-called under "probation". but, you know, sometimes man can be nice for a period of time only, once he knows that you have fully forgiven him, he will be back to his old ways. Like the saying "leopard never changes it's spots". so, i really dont know...
btw, how about your side??
I believed it's really not easy on your side.
For me, not so fortunate, he is not remorseful and even push the blame to me. I am already in the process of divorcing.
yes, you are right. i just have to moniter him closly for now. in fact, i have become very sensitive lately. i seem to doubt everything he does, his actions and his words. All these, make me very insecure and really hate this feeling, but deep down in my heart, i believe, the love for him is still here. so, i guessed i just have to give both of us time to heal over this and hopefully things will work out.
but, i can't conclude anything now, cause i still feel insecure even though he is with me everyday. i think it's becase the trust is no longer that strong and confident.. but i guessed i am still holding now is because i know i still love him and hoping that he will really be remorseful and change for our future...
misssixty, for me, it's a closure. I am happy with my life now. No more lies and no more hurful things
hi, I recently found out through my wife handphone that she is exchanging intimate messages with a male. From the messages, I knew they are having affair. I need a good and reliable PI to help me get evidence. Pls recommend me a PI.
yes... it really does require lots of courage to take the every 1st step, be it is divorcing or forgiving..
are you sure you are prepared to know the truth? the truth will surfaced once you engaged a PI, and it's going to be really hurting.
you may want to think twice.
For me, I dont't know to stay in a marriage where one party is no more faithful to the other. What kind of evidence did the PI get for you? how much it cost?