This is a discussion on Private Investigator within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by newlife2010 april tay, you are a pi from "dp", what you are doing is really unethical. Is ...
hi i am just wanted to share with you guy why must you guy say till like cheatting and cheap. i stated here to you know but never use of force. just want to be a good person recom the company to other that are in need..im also a mummy that have problem with my hubby...you guy say till like that really make mi very heart pain n sad about it...
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hi i got your e mail just now can you be able to sms mi tml at 81xxxxx my name april. will let you know more information
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Hi yes am a pi. Company dp. Can you able to sms mi your num so i can get back to you. Coz i now on other case also so very hard 4 mi to check my mail. Thanks
ya but got some people ask mi i did told them also. than they so angry. anyway i hope you guy pls dont be angry about it. coz i just wanted to help those mummy that hubby that are hidding something behind to let you found a good company to find out the true. and we can also share here to let any mummy in need to know about this.
Hi mummies, can you all who have hired the services of PI give me some feedback of the PI. My sister is in need of a good PI to do investigation for her.
PI pls stay away, I want genuine feedback from someone who have used the PI services before.
look for referral, at least others have use the services of the PI, and will know whether the PI is honest and professional.
Sorry to say this, but there are too many bad hats(PI) in Singapore. So it's very important not to be cheated.
Dinnie have a good PI. you cab email or sms him. He should be able hekp you
Ladies, read your stories here and really empathize with you. I heard from my husband that a bitch from his workplace was trying to seduce him the first few weeks after he started work. At that time, we r newly married and still very lovey dovey so he didn't respond to her. She's not bad looking, I know coz she came to attend my wedding. But she's not the very attractive type. Perhaps just easy target. She seemed to have seduced almost all above average looking men in the office. She think she's attractive and can seduce any men she wants. She even announced loudly while talking to other female colleagues that my hubby doesn't get it when she try to "throw glances" at him. She already knew he's married! What a bitch!
Recently, heard she 2 timed the boss and another good-looking male colleague and was dumped by this male colleague when he found out that she's unfaithful.
I can't say more how shameless women like that can be. She's a PRC but can't say all PRCs r like that coz there r nice PRCs who r wifes and mothers in my hubby's office. Maybe foreigners like her who have no family support, no love, no faith or belief and no need to worry about shaming family will tend to do funny stunts like that.
There was once, the company sent HER and my hubby alone on 1 week conference to Europe. I was worried sick, and tried to restrict his time gng out with her. This bitch thought I am worried about my husband falling in love with her. Yucks. I just dont want her to try anything funny. She kept thinking she's beautiful and men cannot resist her. Lucky I have friend in Europe who can bring my husband (and unfortunately, her) around, so he didn't need to go out with her alone.
If this happens 5 years or more after marriage, I'm not sure whether hubby can still remain so not tempted. A woman has got to be vigilant at all times!
In my hands now, I have adultery evidence against him, but i dont't know what to do. On one hand, I want to use this and get away from this man who have betrayed my trust, but on the other hand, I dont't want my kids to have a broken family, and deep inside my heart, i still love him. I got the evidence, but he still dont;t know and can pretend to be busy with work. I really dont;t know what to do.
Just want to share a different perspective on these issue.
I think if we suspect our partner of cheating, and we started looking for PI to gather proofs, IMO it's like choosing a long winding path that will bring more heartache and hurts not just to ourselves, and our partners, but also to those people we love around us.
It's like we are opening a pandora box, we will never know what's inside. Honestly whatever the PI finds out, what will it do? Save our marriage? As a weapon in divorce courts?
Hiring a PI will be like we are hiring a lawyer getting ready to sue someone that has wronged us.
Why not just filled for divorce and try to part ways in good term? Sometimes certain thing is better if we just keep it to ourselves.
We will preserve the dignity of our partners in the eye of our kids and loved ones. When our partner is stupid enough to degrade themselves, we need to be the smarter one to ensure our kids and loved ones will grow up with the picture of their parents kind of intact.
Most of the times, we have some part in why things happenned. Like Tiger wood, all the bitches out there know he makes upward of 120 million a year. They will find anyway to try to enjoy those earnings. So no matter how strong Tiger is, he will certainly fall prey...even the Bible say, we will not be able to face this kind of seduction and warn us to run away.
So if our partner is a white collar in some firm, where everybody in the office knows he is making a 6 digits salary. Sure enough a few of those bitches will try to steal a piece of the pie. So our job will get more complicated than just be a house wife, we need to make sure our husband is not attractive to those bitches.
Some things like :
1. Participate in Company functions, make sure you look gorgeous and extra friendly to everybody, especially those bitches. If you are nice and extra friendly, at least you give them no excuse of "his wife is an ass, he needs a better companion"
2. Let your husband be what he was intended to be in a family, the King, so he does not need to be king some where else.
3. Limit your family usage of xtra luxurious stuff, those just magnify the X factor that attract bitches.
4. And the most important thing is pray for your partner whenever you guys are apart. Pray when your partner leave for works, away for company trips. Ask for God's favor and grace to protect both of you.
Hi all mummies,
I wonder what will your decision be if the PI where to find evidence of adultery? I guess we goto ask ourselves 1st how wil we react and handle if its true that our spouse is cheating on us... I believe all of us in this forum are mummies, so whatever we do, we goto spare a thought for our children. whatever we do now wil affect their future greatly.
if you all realised, the affair partners now r usually non sporean. its either thais or PRCs...what do you think is their main motive to seduce sporean men? of course its for the money n PR status...they can b young n sweet now, but they wil grow old too! Most importantly, YOU R THE LEGAL WIFE!!! if your husband never ask for divorce, dnt mention you want it! just spend his money! dnt let the other woman spend it for you!!! you think they so silly will wait for your husband patiently or just want his body not his money? when they realised that they r wasting their time on a man who wil not divorce his wife n lieave his children, they wil leave n find another man...
but most important, we cannot b fighting with them everyday...cos it wil oni make the man go to those sluts n NEVER EVER confront the slut, cos rem, DNT EVER give her a chance to mock at you for not being able to hold your husband heart!!! they r in no position to talk to us so never call them up.