The age to enter childcare is 18mths.....I think not all infant cares are ex....my son the infant care after govt subsidy is only S$400plus.....but it is without air-con one and at the void deck type
I think it depends on what you want for your child
Now if you cannot agree with how your mother in law take care of the niece, you can close one eye......but once when your baby come out it will be different. You will feel different, cos' all mummies want the best for their child
But how about you stay home for the time being to take care of your child? have you thought about it?