Not saying that others have to follow me... Just that I thought things have changed for the better, after all these episodes... I know he is abusin me and in fact I have wanted to leave him but I told myself to give that last chance.
So things have become better after I tried out this technique. Go the soft approach. I know many ppl will not agree to that and I hate my dad for doing similar things to my mum in the past.
But after using the soft approach to my hubby, things have become better and he has not been violent anymore! So isn't that better?