Nobody in this forum can help you. (Unless the member happens to be a family lawyer) I am speaking the truth, all we can do for you is spare you a listening ear.
Seek help from your lawyer/s or family court on resolving this. We can't provide any solution for you at all. What can I do for you? Go to his house threaten him? Humiliate him as a man? Fact is, we can't do anything.
Chances are, members are going to curse your husband inside out, but does it solve your problem? Will that make him feed his children on time? Nope, you know it.
If you need legal advice, let me know. Might be able to recommend you a female lawyer, woman tend to know another woman better too. Maybe you will be more comfortable to speak to a female lawyer.