why you want to give up your baby?been staying differently from my hub since i was preg. now baby 19mths old and have been staying separately 2 years plus. had huge arguement that lead to this so called separation.
have not been pondering about divorce i'm been raising up my son solely and did obtain a maintance order of $250 from him for baby every month. but he doest transfer to me on times. complained once and leave it.
he's been wanting to patch back with me n baby but he has bad temper.
when he's unhappy he scolds me vulgarities and even hurled my parents.
in short he did nothing as a husband and a father and yet demand a lot. he even took all my money just before i gave birth been paying off his debts past one year.
if i were to file a divorce base on separation does it valids? becoz in the term of staying apart i did allow him to see baby and had dinner.
been struggling a lot whether to divorce. as a mother i would like my son to have a perfect family. but as a woman i can't stay with such a man. a man who wont give me future. no one around me ever ask me to patch with him. all i hear was voices to divorce.
and it's odd, sg laws only allows married couples to divorce after 3 years.
i look back to the path i've took and it takes me so long to decide.
i wasted 2 yrs time thinking this man might change, just becoz the law says 3yrs n i waited.
i've gave umpteens times of chances that he's not worth giving...
having myself being humilated for so long...
recently been thinking of handing my boy to him so that we can break off totally...
i wonder how i survive through it.