This is a discussion on Tell tales sign of straying? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by Spiralng So far no one response mahhh...only you....if people curious sure post something mah....but you seem overly ...
[quote=Daddy D;187924]bathe 3 times a day?! you over-bathe or I under-bathe?
i bathe my gal 2 times a day... in the afternoon and before bed..
if not she 'niam ti ti' i dont like and i think she wun sleep well too..
Mich... you power.... I also BTH...
For my case my hubby also gaming alot then until one day i have a big quarrel with him and i leave home left the children in his care and go drink...Let him take the responsibilty himself so he will know. Of coz i leave that time i sure worry coz i got a 6 month old baby but i dont care i just leave left 2 children with him. Since then he did change abit, still game but will auto abit wont game so much. Hehe abit heartless of me to do this but still i want to say this is not the best solution so if you want to do this i cant gurantee anything. Maybe sometime we really have to be heartless abit if not they wont 'zi dong'
Thanks to those who have provided their advise or suggestions! My gf say her husband had apologised and he feels very guilty for betraying her trust. But my gf still cannot forget the email that her husband wrote to his "lover". She described that he had written "i love you" and he dare not previously express his love openly bcos he did not want to ruin his "lover's family".
The backgd is that her husband already knew this "lover" before marriage. He chased after the "lover" for sometime but did not succeed. Then the "lover" got a bf and eventually got married with kids. To my gf's surprise, her husband still harbours that tots y he could not be with her. My gf is trying her best to stay rational...
Frankly no women like to nag. We got better things to do than nag, nag and nag BUT most of the times the reason of us nagging is the men are too boh-chup (not because you men are stupid or anything)! there are plenty of CPs and taking their wife for granted! Thinking that "Oh, my wife is so capable she can manage everything without my help" or "wait ....." and then wait till nothing is done yet. Wives may be capable in multi-tasking but IT's the husbands' lousy atttitude and insensitivity that cause us to go berserk! So,are wives slaves? Must it solely or mostly or "job" to take care of the husband, house and kids??? you wanna have kids together, so gotta buck up and share the reponsibilities! So what if the men are stress at work? As if the wives at home got no stress? I, myself, is a full time working mum and my husband, well....Anyway, whatever it is, excuses are always excuses! Just gotta get a grip of yourself and action to it or better still, take the INITIATIVE to do it before your wife nags at you. In return she will be totally grateful and appreciative. So, ask yourself y you wanna get married and have children at the first place? Marriage is bringing 2 people together and also, work together to make it better and more loving.
So, men have their hobbies, women dont't meh? Wives thend to sacrifice more for children and frankly, for those moms out there who have given so much for their children should have full custody of the children after divorce because the husbands at the 1st place dont't give a damn! So, how can the wives be nice everytime when the husbands slack? Do we need to remind them again and again and again??? Perhaps priority should change when you have kids. Games, movies, surfing the net, bring-back work, etc can wait after both help each other to settle the house and kids. Fair???
imagine i was in the toilet only n baby cry.. my hubby carry him he also cry cos he dont really know hw to carry newborn baby then he will stand outside my toilet door like 'hua chi' n asked me every 1 min if i'm done with my business...
poo poo also not free... so if i leave them with him... more likely he will get depression then me getting it...
i think you underbathe. haha~
even we adults also need to bathe 2 times a day .
for me, i cnt stand it when pin bcomes sticky.
cos in sch got aircon, still not that bad, but at home, she run n play bcome so sticky, i think so uncomfy for her~
n if go out whole day, i feel will be like "dirty" cos of the germs n exposure to dust n all, so when she is home after a day out, it's a must to bathe her.
my mum also bth , sometimes weather very warm, she will bathe my girl 3-4 times in the day even they r at home.
Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
My hubby also bout the same... The other night I very urgent need to go toilet, ask him carry Zyan (#3) bcoz she crying, he was sleeping , wah liew, he ask me put her on the floor!
Imagine if I leave the baby with him, I think I can faint ....
Last edited by str@wb3rry's; 23-07-2009 at 12:22 PM.
hey, I just remember from past reports... those online games... got some with online marriage thingy... where they accumulate points with other gamers... hmmm... you gek gek go n see what your hubby is playing